Bummed...

[CSweets]

So I'm pretty bummed because around a year ago when me and my OH were dating for about 6 months, I broke up with him because I was scared of commitment and even though it's a real shallow thing to do I dated someone else almost immedietely to see if I missed my OH or not. I told myself that if I missed him then he really was the one for me but if I didn't then we weren't meant to be together. I did this because this was the time that we were talking about marriage and kids and I got scared. I didn't know if this was exactly what I wanted and I wanted to make sure that he was the one. I got back together with my OH the next day and I told him how much I was sorry and told him why I did it and after a while he told me he understood it was a complete tear fest but we were back and we were back for good and he and I both knew that. We vowed never to talk about it again and acted like it never happened like we never broke up which I liked. Well during the time I tried to get back together with my OH he said no at first and I texted his brother to help me.

Now everytime someone talks about dating issues and he's there he always has to bring up the fact that I'm pretty much a slut and how I broke up with my OH to date another guy and that I cheated and stuff like that and it just makes me so sad! Me and my OH vowed never to talk about it but when its brought up I feel so bad that I always end up in tears!

This was one mistake that I will regret for the rest of my life and it makes me feel worse when my OH's little brother brings it up!

 

[Tanara]

Your OH should talk to him and tell him its non of his business, its not his right to throw it in your face constantly when it really has nothing to do with him.