Hey
I had a really positive c-section experience after a failed induction, its scary to think about it beforehand but this is my first baby and I would be very happy to have another c-section if we have further children
My advice is based on my UK hospital experience, not sure if it different elsewhere.
As you have already had a baby, I wont go into what you need to pack for baby as I am sure you know all too well what babies need!
For your hospital bag you need to pack for at least 2 days (3 nights). It seems to be standard practice to keep you in for a minimum of 48 hours, it may be longer if you develop any complications or if you do not pass enough urine for them to be happy that all is ok inside after it has all been shuffled about!
A nightie / large t-shirt as you are completely immobile for the first 24 hours with a catheter in so very busy nurses need quick easy access to your pads and catheter which pj bottoms restricts (the last thing you will want is someone pulling you around to get pj bottoms on and off)
Regular pjs - if you want trouser pjs for the next couple of days once the epidural wears off and the catheter is removed and you can get up and look after yourself, bring a couple of sets in case the vaginal bleeding leaks! I would advise on bringing a big size so there is no tight fitting clothing around your tummy and pelvis.
Enormous granny pants!! The type that sit up near your rib cage!! You will not want anything anywhere near your incision site for weeks.
A few towels for showering- again for the vaginal bleeding (as your incision will be covered up)
Bed socks
Slippers
Dressing gown
Snacks and drinks for between meals
Magazines / books / pen
Ipod & earphones (ipod style earphones useful to plug into the personal tv)
Money for phone / debit or credit card for tv services (if in UK)
List of contact telephone numbers or email addresses (our hospital TV package offered free landline calls and free internet)
Mobile phone
Make up & remover (if you can be bothered!)
Toiletries - non perfumed soap / shower gel, toothbrush, toothpaste, hairbands, moisturiser, lip balm etc
Maternity & breast pads
Hairbrush
Loose clothing for leaving hospital
Probably other stuff too but it will be your normal everyday stuff you will remember to pack rather than c-section essentials!
If you want any info on what to expect from a planned c-section procedure then I would be very happy to share my story with you