Foogirl
Baby Abby 11 weeks early
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I was just wondering, do two mummies, face different issues from two daddies? Does it seem people are more accepting of one than the other? The reason I ask is, whenever people talk about adoption and want to be arseholes about it, they always seem to concentrate on the oh-so-terrible things that will happen if two men adopt but I can't recall hearing the same ire directed at two women adopting.
Also, just read the introductions thread, I thought it was interesting you all noted how you came to have your children. Is this something that really bugs you if people ask - after all, no-one ever asks me! And for two mummies, do people always want to know who carried your child (or for daddies, who's sperm was used) It always seemed strange to me that anyone would ask that (I remember reading it in an article about SSP parents a while back and the journo had asked the question of a couple) Why would it make a difference.
Anyways, that was more than one question. Sorry. I'm really nosy!
Also, just read the introductions thread, I thought it was interesting you all noted how you came to have your children. Is this something that really bugs you if people ask - after all, no-one ever asks me! And for two mummies, do people always want to know who carried your child (or for daddies, who's sperm was used) It always seemed strange to me that anyone would ask that (I remember reading it in an article about SSP parents a while back and the journo had asked the question of a couple) Why would it make a difference.
Anyways, that was more than one question. Sorry. I'm really nosy!