Can I come in? Found out OH is cheating, looking at porn, etc...

[LilBean2010]

Hi All...

I am hoping to come in and it looks like I will be staying for a while. I have a 6 1/2 year old son and I am 19 1/2 weeks pregnant. Last night, I found porn images on my OH's computer which I initially believed belonged to his 19 year old ex step daughter, but it turns out it was his ex...showing him she can still "look like a teenager!" After reading through e-mails, scans, etc I realize he has been talking to his ex for some time with no regard for our relationship, our children, and so on. He has also been pursuing a "new relationship" with a co-worker and looking at porn images of his ex on a regular basis.

I printed it all out, wrote him a LONG letter, packed up my stuff and left. He should be coming home anytime now to find all of this. I also sent both women he has been seeing a very nice e-mail telling them what he has been doing, that I am pregnant and telling them I want them to be as informed as I am. As it looks like...I am going to be a single Mommy.

So...I did it for a while when my son was born and my OH and I weren't together but it is going to be a journey as I am sure all of you in here know.

I do feel very betrayed and heartbroken, angry, shocked, etc...I know it will take time. I am just hoping to get through this and enjoy my little ones.

Mind if I join you?

 

[MissEfendi]

Of course you can join us!!
What a twat your ex is!!! If he is not happy you think he would tell you instead of going behind your back and behaving like an utter idiot when you are pregnant.
Kudos to you for packing up and leaving.
You deserve better and you will be fine xx

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

Oh hun



You and baby are better off without him
xx

 

[Laura2919]

I'm sorry you have had to go through that.
My ex was forever emailing or texting some woman somewhere and I like to think that that is him and it werent me.. He chose to do that so he can carry on with his life.

You deserve way better than that, So I am hoping your strong and you will ride it out.

Its not easy being on your own but you do deserve better than that and I hope you know that!

 

[mommy2baby2]

So what happened? Did he contact you? Did you hear back from the other women?

When you have some time, update your other thread, you have a lot of worried Mama's over there!

 

[LilBean2010]

I thought my other thread had been closed or locked as it showed " - - - " in second trimester but I gather that is because it was moved. I'm so sorry!! Thought I upset someone at BnB!

I updated the other thread since I know it was just moved...