Can we make a new forum?

[Bkrispy]

Infertility ruined my marriage, I'm single, and hurt.
I'll never have the money for IVF, and I have no tubes. Ectopic pregnancies took them both- I've only had loss loss and then told never.
I don't want to sit and chat with women who have hope. I don't have any, I need support from people who actually are here, not those who fear it, but are optimistic it won't happen to them.

 

[Mummy May]

I'm sorry you're hurting. Of course you're going to be after all that. I don't think you will find many people around here who aren't optimistic though. All the ladies on here pull together to pull each other through the fog. It doesn't sound like that's what you want at the moment. Xx

 

[minimoocow]

I think an "accepting life without children" forum might be good for those who have come to the end of the road and want support to move on. I guess the issue would be how many people there would be wanting to post on it as part of that moving on might be not visiting these forums anymore. I'm not currently in that category but following difficulties TTC I deliberately stayed away from B&B as it was a bit painful . . .

 

[Wobbles]

Hi Bkrispy,

I am sorry to read your situation

I have met many ladies who have been in similar situations and the forum it's self being too painful of a reminder for their situation. Although I can understand your request I don't think the additional forum request would be used/active but after discussing with the team we would like to suggest a group thread in the LTTTC or Assisted Conception where infertility is discussed.

Sorry this wasn't the answer you were hoping for, it isn't one I have found easy to reply to.


Wobbles

 

[Bkrispy]

but I'm not trying to conceive, and talking with women who are isn't very helpful.
I need to find someone like me.
Who can't ever try but still wants to.

 

[Midnight_Fairy]

I have a friend in situation who has a page x