Can you help me explain this?

[Laura2919]

This really bothers me and I dont really know why!

I see FOB's mum not long ago who said he is very rarely indoors and this really wound me up!

When I ask him to do something for me i.e have the twins for me so I could go and see my newborn nephew he text to say 'well I am at physio then I am going out but suppose I could cancel but wont get to you until like 8:30pm' all he has to tell me really is he either can or he cant and everyone including him knows visiting ends here at 8pm! Lol.

Div, I swear I am not jealous and I dont even care who he is with but is this just for me to think he has a better life without me cos it angers me that I wasted so much time on him

We normally have a great relationship, we know we dont work and we dont want to be together but he seems to do things to wind me up, he knows what works and what doesnt.

 

[kirst1805]

xxx

 

[MrsKippling]

Men xx

 

[Laura2919]

He always has to explain what the hell he is doing with his day..

 

[teal]

xx

 

[sambucababy]

Ur so much stronger than me considering its only been a few weeks since you've split, unless I read ur icker wrong coz im a bit all over the place at the min lol -

men dont think i'll ever understand them !!

 

[Laura2919]

Nope your not wrong.. Really it should say 18 months but I stupidly went back! for just over a year.
4 weeks Monday, I dont want him back at all but its so frustrating that he gets to do whatever he wants lol.

 

[Marlarky]

Hun, I go through this with FOB all the time! He takes pride in knowing that I have no other sitters while I attend college 3days a week & he throws it in my face with little remarks like that, It really irks me! I bought myself some Abercrombie & Fitch pants, the first thing I have bought myself in months, & they were very very pricey but I thought I deserved a treat. Well FOB came to pick Aaron up so I could go to school & our driveway was being re-done so there was wet tar. I was in a hurry and the people who re-did the driveway didn't put a barrier up so I stepped in the wet tar in my new abercrombie pants (I am very short so they hung down & got tar all over the bottom hem) & he stood there & laughed at me. I asked him why he wouldn't warm me that I was about to step in all that tar since he was right behind me & he goes, "It's not my job to babysit you anymore!" Ugh the nerve!! I was so mad my whole way to school

Anyway, I got off-topic, but I know what you are going through bc his little comments infuriate me & he knows exactly what to say to piss me off. & Honestly, I'm quite sick of it! Sorry that your FOB is a jerk like mine is, we should just create a genocide of asshole men!

 

[Marlarky]

Oh, & meant to add that they are getting the easy part of everything ! I would never ever have someone else take care of my son for me, but it just makes me mad that I have to deal with all the crying fussing screaming pooping eating lack of sleep etc, while he gets to lie in every day of the week & get to see my son 3 days a week when I go to school & not have to worry about bathing him & getting him to sleep. He can feed him whatever he wants because he usually only poops at nighttime when I get him back , & I have to deal with everything Aaron does @ his dad's house while he gets to enjoy his son & not worry about a thing! ugh- men!!

 

[Laura2919]

Its very annoying, I'd have taken them off and shoved em in his face