Abblebubba
WTT Sept '15 - #2
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Hello everyone;
I dont think i have ever posted about my loss but in July 2008, I lost my beautiful baby at home in my bathroom
I have never written about this as i have always kept it private it was my special moment my pregnancy and nobody knew about it, just me and i would lie there of an evening just holding my tummy, my baby was there i could feel her, her? well im sure she was my princess 99% sure that she was a girl and she was the bonny baby girl i had longed for.
I started getting cramps in the morning and throughout the day they got worse and i started to worry, as i wasn't sure what was going on..
There was no blood just cramping so i remember going for a lie down and i was woken up by a feeling i can only explain as ''wetting the bed'' - I had been bleeding very heavily whilst i was asleep and the pain was now unbarable, as i got to the bathroom i had to sit on the floor.
[Sorry for the detail may upset readers ]
But i called for my mum as i had to get to the hospital i was being sick and felt very faint, before taking the rug with me to A&E i took a picture, now i dont know why but then it felt like the right thing to do?
When igot to the hospital i was told i had misscarried and i would have to go to theatre as there were dangerous goings on still in my stomach and i had lost a lot of blood.
When i woke up a few hours after all this i felt nothing, just nothing...
They told me i would feel very low and different for a while but they promised there were people that could help me, help me? how? i had lost all i ever wanted and they wanted me to go to counceling?
The other day i was sat in my bathroom a different bathroom as we have moved house but none the less it all came back to me the pain, i could feel it all it was like i was re-living it again- i broke into tears and i cant get it out of my head the pain, the crying, the emptiness.
I dont want to be close to anyone but i dont want to be left on my own...
Is there anyone here that knows what im going through, and is it going to hurt like this forever?
I dont think i have ever posted about my loss but in July 2008, I lost my beautiful baby at home in my bathroom
I have never written about this as i have always kept it private it was my special moment my pregnancy and nobody knew about it, just me and i would lie there of an evening just holding my tummy, my baby was there i could feel her, her? well im sure she was my princess 99% sure that she was a girl and she was the bonny baby girl i had longed for.
I started getting cramps in the morning and throughout the day they got worse and i started to worry, as i wasn't sure what was going on..
There was no blood just cramping so i remember going for a lie down and i was woken up by a feeling i can only explain as ''wetting the bed'' - I had been bleeding very heavily whilst i was asleep and the pain was now unbarable, as i got to the bathroom i had to sit on the floor.
[Sorry for the detail may upset readers ]
I could feel something coming out of my lady parts that i thought to myself shouldnt be happening! It was hurting so much i had to give mild force to get what i believed to be my princess out and a lot of blood- When i looked at the bathroom rug i saw my baby not in a way i ever, ever wanted to but still my baby, i looked closer and i saw her tiny precious arm and hand and that was all i could see - please i am so so sorry if i have upset anyone by this.
When igot to the hospital i was told i had misscarried and i would have to go to theatre as there were dangerous goings on still in my stomach and i had lost a lot of blood.
When i woke up a few hours after all this i felt nothing, just nothing...
They told me i would feel very low and different for a while but they promised there were people that could help me, help me? how? i had lost all i ever wanted and they wanted me to go to counceling?
The other day i was sat in my bathroom a different bathroom as we have moved house but none the less it all came back to me the pain, i could feel it all it was like i was re-living it again- i broke into tears and i cant get it out of my head the pain, the crying, the emptiness.
I dont want to be close to anyone but i dont want to be left on my own...
Is there anyone here that knows what im going through, and is it going to hurt like this forever?