CD 8 here comes the BD!

[Redclaire]

so CD8 today, smiliy face on CB stix usually CD12, and so we begin again!!
I love my partner soo much and fancy the pants off him but i think i'm finding the getting in the mood for lots of BD this month harder

Just feel tired by the whole process of trying to keep upbeat like all the time!
I had a good cry with him last week there when the witch arrived ...again... and he's soo cool about the whole process its just i feel the effort on my side is a bit fake this month. Last month i was game on for loads of
I'm really hoping hormones or something kick in for this weekend!
I've arranged my shifts so i'm off and got in a couple of bottles of wine and i'm going to light the fire etc etc but i think i need a pink viagra!!!!!
Any other ideas ladies... though i think i'm still disappointed last month didn't work

 

[FutureMommie]

I totally know how you feel, I feel the same way and wish I had a pink pill too! I just try to do what puts me in the mood, such as a hot shower, nice lingerie, and candles, just to relax. It doesn't work all the time, I'll be honest, sometimes I just bd because I know what we are trying to accomplish.

 

[Redclaire]

Just get so cheesed off with the whole thing! My best mate is preg now, 6 mths, and she's 37. She got pregnant on her 3rd month of not trying too hard!
I think i'm just sad cos when ttc with my ex hubby, he had all the problems, but i had all the tests for infertility too yuk! i just thought with my new present partner, who has kids so is in working order and wants another, that everything would just happen... i mean we even used condoms for 2 months because we were going on a big holiday!!
I've had my bloods done and everything ok there and i really dont want to go down the medical intervention route but i know i wont be happy unless we try all avenues.
It just puts so much on the and even tho i'm a really happy type of person i am finding this really really hard, and upsetting!
OK rant over!!
chin up and fancy ninnies on!! check check and double check!!

 

[mandy1971]

Hi honey,
just thought I'd give you some encouragement. I had my 2nd m/c in sept both have been at 5 weeks. Anyhow we have been using the cbfm this month for the first time and straight off from cd 6 we had a high! We've been doing a power of bd'ing!!! We then got our 2 peaks and although we were both running on empty at thus point the bd'ing continued... We really could not be bothered!!! But persevered as we wanted to give it everything and we did.. Well, it's 4 days before the witch arrives and I used the preg test fir testing 4 days early.. Got 2 lines 2nd one is faint done 2 tests both the same... All that grafting can pay off girl..! We are ever so cautious about it though but so glad we managed it this month..Good luck with getting that egg xxxx

 

[Redclaire]

Hi honey,
just thought I'd give you some encouragement. I had my 2nd m/c in sept both have been at 5 weeks. Anyhow we have been using the cbfm this month for the first time and straight off from cd 6 we had a high! We've been doing a power of bd'ing!!! We then got our 2 peaks and although we were both running on empty at thus point the bd'ing continued... We really could not be bothered!!! But persevered as we wanted to give it everything and we did.. Well, it's 4 days before the witch arrives and I used the preg test fir testing 4 days early.. Got 2 lines 2nd one is faint done 2 tests both the same... All that grafting can pay off girl..! We are ever so cautious about it though but so glad we managed it this month..Good luck with getting that egg xxxx

Wow!! well done you!!
It's worked! i think this site is blooming marvellous! Power bonking it is then!!
I've never been preg, never seen those 2 lines! My cousin has announced she is preg after a horrible M/C last year and for once i'm not jealous!
Thumbs up to all you girls how keep on going even after such sad M/C!!
thanks a million for the encouragement..i mean it thanks! no more bitching from me...well not til the 2ww!! lol

 

[DressageDiva]

Hiya

I know how you feel, this weekend will be DTD weekend! Im not letting him even go to work ha ha

Good luck to both of us!

I have to say though one thing I find frustrating, more than having lots of lovley sex with hubby, is not being able to the week before! He obviously feels the same ha ha! not happy about abstaining...im going to do my fertility test tommorow morning and then jump on him

 

[Redclaire]

We're doing the every other day BDing, and then lots when fertile...which starts today! ,
I seem to ovulate day 12/13 for the last couple of months. Planning alot of up close and personal time this weekend... i've took the time off work and he's cleared his calendar! Going to give it our best shot!

 

[mandy1971]

good one Redclaire!! xxx