cervix and orgasm

daisydancer

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Hi :)
Quickly explain-I had my son in 2003, and when I was 21 weeks preg with him they did a tiny biopsy. I went 12 days overdue with him. I am now nearly 24 weeks pregnant with my 2nd.
I was feeling pressure in my vagina about 16 weeks and at the time th consultant could not find out a) when I went to the colposcopy clinic, and b) if I had the leep procedure/ cone biopsy etc etc.
He decided to send me for a cervix scan at 20 weeks-my cervix was 4cm. I went back at 22 weeks and it was 4.4cm, so now I have to go at 26 weeks to see if its the same, but he said its just routine and it should be ok. (They found out at my last scan at 22 weeks that I had only had a tiny biopsy done when I was preg last time, and it was a diferent consultant and he said although everything looked great he had better do what my normal consultant says and have me back at 26 weeks-normal consultant didnt know I only had the tiny biopsy, you see).
What I'm worried about, probably about nothing, is this morning I had an orgasm. I have only had sex 2 times with Dh, in the first trimester, and I have had a few more orgasms since, although probably only like 1 or 2 a month or something. I am scared now tht every twinge I feel down below that I have "done" something to shorten my cervix by having an orgasm now. Although I have before. I suppose I'm just scared coz I dont go back for a scan til 11th Jan, which seems ages away.
The consultant or doctor have never mentioned no sex...the consultant surely would have, but I'm so paranoid tht he forgot or something!
Any thoughts?
xxxx
 
Hi hun. The fact that your cervix is such a good length at 22wks means that it isn't incompetent hun. Your doc is just being extra thorough which is brilliant. Given that you don't have IC, then I really wouldn't worry about the orgasm. Even if, worst case scenario, you did have IC, then by now it wouldn't be an issue for baby anyway.

Put it this way, despite my best efforts, I had a few orgasms during my twin pregnancy, have a very weak cervix, and a stitch, but I got to 38wks. Stop worrying hun, you'll be fine x
 
Thank you so much for your lovely reply, you made me feel so much better. You explained things much better than the mw did today on the phone! :)
 
Any time my sweet ;) There isn't anything I don't know about cervixes.....................sadly :rofl: x
 

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