Christmas'd up Jaydens Grave

[Jodie__x]

Went down yesterday with OH , Havnt been for a month or so, because it was his due day last month and i honestly couldnt bring myself to do it. which sounds so stupid but i couldnt ! i've been feeling so guilty about it, but anyway i went. we just got him a lovely black marble pot from the grandparents and headstones on order now. I put some xmassy flowers down there , some xmas reefs with his name on, a red heart ballon and a father xmas and a snow man down there. The earth is starting to settle now so i can make things look as nice as i can. i feel so much better for going to see him. !


Just thought id let you all know anyway , ill get some pitures up soon x

 

[Suz]

 

[KKSARAH]

xx

 

[doctordeesmrs]

 

[HannahGraceee]

 

[DaisyDuke]

 

[FEDup1981]

im sure it looks very nice hun, you did well x

 

[oxSarahxo]

Looking forward to seeing the pictures hun, well done ... There's no shame in having some time away, you can't live in the past.

Me and the OH have been to B&Q today getting things for jessica's grave, fencing to go around it, some top soil for levelling it all out and some white stone chip things. You see them all the time, pink and yellow ones anyway at jessicas cemetary. So I got white ones. Gonna start on it tomorrow, got a car full of tools etc.

I'm gonna do a step by step guide to how we do it, like each step of the way take a photo and write what we did each time, so on so forth.

I hope you are coping. If you need anyone to talk to, just shout.

 

[wantababybump]

xx

 

[celine]

*hugs*

 

[Logiebear]

You are brave lady

 

[v2007]

Aww what a lovely thing you have done for your little boy.

My daughters ashes were scattered so i dont really have a place to go, but i always let off some balloons for her and write her a card from all of us and put it in her memory box.

V x x

 

[honey08]

 

[Drazic<3]

sounds beautiful.
Hope your coping okay