Hi everyone, hope all ok...
Dinah- must be a bit scary knowing what happened with your mum. Did her BP just go really really high or were there problems with the baby (you??) getting distressed too? Can understand you wanting to be ready early though- keep us posted on how you're getting on

Can I ask about you being signed off by the way? Was it specifically due to high BP? Is yours chronic or gestational? I am still surprised by the amount of variation in how things are approached across the country!!
No her BP just started to rise and wouldn't stop, she was on tablets from the start of pregnancy, but at one point it's like they just stopped working.
Yep I'm signed off due to the BP, it's chronic/essential rather than gestational. So far no signs of pre-e.
I was taken into the hospital ante-natal unit this week after my weekly midwife check showed my bp was running at 138/108. They took my blood pressure 5 times more over the next 3 1/2 hours, and it was okay, in the area of 135/98, 135/90, and bizarrely even a 120/80 reading. So they let me go home again, but I have to go see the consultant on Monday. Not chuffed as he'd just told me my bp was doing really well and he didn't want to see me again until 28 weeks. DH had even booked us a weekend away and now I'm worried I won't be able to go - everyone keeps saying it's mad to go away, but if I am only being monitored once a week then does it really matter where I am for the 6 days in between if my readings between then and now are more settled?