dgirllamius
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My LO has a terrible habit of chucking things.
According to my mum I'm a shit mother who doesn't know how to discipline her, that I'm doing it all wrong, that she's not old enough to understand blah blah blah the usual crap.
If it's a toy I take it away from her and she won't get it again for a day or two. If it's something that doesn't belong to her I ask her to pick it up, put it back where she found it and let her know that we don't chuck things. I also let her know if she chucks toys, I don't just take it away and not give a notion to my actions.
Anyway, I got into a bit of a flap earlier with my mum. My LO found some old coins and chucked a few on the floor. I asked her to pick it up, put it back and she failed to acknowledge what I said because after 3 times asking she just runs off.
The thing is this happens a lot and I'm getting at my wits end with this chucking malarkey.
How do you deal with chucking and refusal to pick things up and put them back where they belong? Because I'm clearly not doing it right...
According to my mum I'm a shit mother who doesn't know how to discipline her, that I'm doing it all wrong, that she's not old enough to understand blah blah blah the usual crap.
If it's a toy I take it away from her and she won't get it again for a day or two. If it's something that doesn't belong to her I ask her to pick it up, put it back where she found it and let her know that we don't chuck things. I also let her know if she chucks toys, I don't just take it away and not give a notion to my actions.
Anyway, I got into a bit of a flap earlier with my mum. My LO found some old coins and chucked a few on the floor. I asked her to pick it up, put it back and she failed to acknowledge what I said because after 3 times asking she just runs off.
The thing is this happens a lot and I'm getting at my wits end with this chucking malarkey.
How do you deal with chucking and refusal to pick things up and put them back where they belong? Because I'm clearly not doing it right...