Hi hun, I don't have any advice but I wanted to send hugs. You're bound to feel emotional at the moment. It's still such a shock and so much to take in. From the little I know it's very treatable now. I'm acquainted with someone's whose little boy had cleft palate and at nearly 4 you'd never know from looking. Best of luck to you all. I hope your husband and mil will be a massive support. X
How are you doing? Can't believe how quick it is going for us. I've been shopping today to Hempsted, and treated him to all white clothes for hospital. Want his beauty to shine through
We have our first specialist appointment on Wednesday, they're coming round and going to be going through all next steps, etc. We have monthly scans now and a lot of appointments to attend, all surgery will be up at Evelina in London. MIL has been completely amazing, she understands the fears I feel, i.e when he is here and the shock etc.. The charity will refer me for 4D bonding scans, I wasn't too keen at first but think now I will do them, I would like to see what he looks like so its easier
My husband has been amazing, he understands my concerns, but tells me to try not to stress now ( hard, but what will change if I stress?) and to just take each day as it comes with scans, appointments, and our boy's arrival. Penman was correct though, definitely another boy!! 3 guesses at 12 weeks, and right on all 3. He is amazing huh! xxx