It's dumb really...he posted on FB his long productive day and all the stuff he did yesterday, and I said "Sounds like what I do everyday" or something like that. and he got sooo offended, saying I could have never done all those things by myself, and he was happy to have done them with me, why did I make him feel unimportant, or unproductive, or ordinary....etc.... It was soooo stupid, but he was honestly upset. I just don't get it. I told him I never intended to make him upset or hurt his feelings, but I feel angry that he would get upset over something so silly! Then he said that I could have never taken the kids to the pool by myself, gone on a 12 mile bikeride pulling all 3 kids, or gone to work, cleaned the house, fed the kids, pool, bike, dr appt, dessert, etc all by myself.....but I didn't mean anything by it....just wanted to express that I feel I do TONS of crap all day every day and his posting just felt like "wow. big deal. Sounds like a day in the life of a MOM" you know? Maybe that WAS rude....but I don't know. I do a lot too.