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[babyloulou]

You're kidding Jess!? Is she really? One of his real ones? I've read a book about that crazy fucker!!

 

[SBB]

Well Lisa?? I want to go to bed but need to know about the house!!

X x x

 

[lisaf]

Well, I don't think I want it. Not unless we tear it out and put in a new one.
Apparently they are not eligible for mortgages too so thats something to think about (no tax break on the interest etc).
If we could get it cheap enough, we might be able to do it... but a new unit would be at least $100k... so if we paid maybe $150 for the lot which is low-balling them, thats still $250 and the interest rates are higher on non-mortgage loans so our monthly payment would be $1649... still kind of high (but not worse than private rent.

I think we should also probably wait, but it will depend on what my parents offer to help.

Funny enough, the wood paneling was NOT as bad as I thought.. but there was SOO much work to be done, sun damage, new struts, new roof etc...

 

[Peach Blossom]

Yeah, Lou, she's one of the main wifelets!! We had lunch with him today! He is bonkers!

 

[babyloulou]

Are you gonna be his new wifelet?

 

[babyloulou]

Lisa- it sounds a big risk to me!!! X

 

[kcw81]

Who is this Jess? Wifelet? Hmm do tell.

Lisa sounds like a no go on that home. Good thing you don't really like it!

Lou sorry about Ben!! it's never ending! Poor thing.

Yes I had a full brazillian wax today - even did my butt. I know you are all jealous. It was pretty easy this tine, the more u do it the less the regrowth. I'll post a pic later. Ha! Jk

 

[lisaf]

lol Casey!!

Trying to find a pattern to knit a wool diaper cover Hoping to get onto cloth for night wear...

 

[Onelildream]

I don't understand wool. Doesn't it shrink when u wash it? If u don't wash it, wouldn't it stink? Someone explain, please...

Just watched crazy stupid love. Laughed out loud a ton! I think everything is funny lately.. Does that happen with getting old-er? Haha.

 

[lisaf]

I'm going to effing kick my dog if he keeps barking while Daniel is asleep!!!! omg... he needs to stop!!

Chell - the diaper cover is hand-washed every couple of weeks. The natural properties of wool mean it can absorb and evaporate some of the pee without needing to be washed often (hard to explain). Its worn over a regular diaper that doesn't have a waterproof outer layer. Its been recommended to me as a possible solution to our night-time issues.
He's even having trouble soaking through disposables now I changed him last night at 4am... by 9am he had soaked through a 12-hr pampers baby dry and his clothes were damp Even disposables aren't a solution for us anymore

 

[SBB]

Lisa I'm glad you've seen it now and basically decided. With a new home on it how much is it worth with the plot?

Wool should work as long as the diaper underneath is absorbent enough too. Make sure you lanolise it. Once it's lanolised it's anti bacterial so you can just air it and hardly ever need to wash/re-lanolise it unless it gets poo on.

The peeing loads in the night does slow down. Now that s goes on the potty first thing his nappies hardly get peed in at night.

Nice Casey!! Please don't post a pic

X x x

 

[babyloulou]

Yeah I second the pee in the night slowing down. I still use a disposable at night and Ben used to completely fill it until it was like a balloon!! Now though his nappies are wee'd in but never full!

Case- you are a brave brave woman!!!! 

 

[Euronova]

I never wanted to go get waxed so usually used cream for under there... But I am scared of the chemicals now so I guess I will have to try and go get waxed... Just so scared, and prob not ideal to try when preggers?
How bad was it first time?
When I am done with this pregnancy I will try laser hair removal again. Did it years ago but I did not finish the course and it all regrowed now.
Still so happy with buying the Doppler but had a horrible dream about OH cheating (Jess I thought about how distressed you must feel at times ) I think the fact he does not want to have any sex at all and as a result we kiss less etc... It's making me feel insecure...
Got a baby photoshoot today! About ten babies from an NCT group, should be fun!

 

[babyloulou]

V- have you tried showing him anything that proves sex doesn't harm the baby? Is that what he's scared of? X

 

[Euronova]

no i think it's more the whole idea that i am carrying a baby and that he is trying to be so caring and cooking me food etc... then he finds it strange to have sex, almost like it's naughty and not appropriate anymore or something... i think he is just not keen on "doing" a pregnant woman if that makes sense.... but i don't actually fancy full blow sex anyway... not until i had my scan and i know all is well... he said he might relax more after that too... but i know seeing the baby again will just make it even more strange for him..
i think i will get him to give me a massage to night, i just need us to feel a bit closer... i am not actually that desperate yet but just want him to still fancy me as his "fiancé" not just think of me like the "mother"... just makes me a bit depressed
Plus it seems that it is only when I am the one initiating things that we kiss or hug... i am just so wary of what a child can do to a united couple, let alone one who is not very close anymore ;(
I have no doubt that he is in love and he is ecstatic that we are having a baby and has been absolutely fantastic at giving in any of my food request etc... I just need us to be a bit closer physically... as it is clearly playing on my mind if i am having those sort of dreams

 

[kcw81]

V - once 2nd tri hits you will force him cuz you will be dying for it! That's how I was- the hormones make you all amorous. Not everyone but defo me. Ask Lou about her oh- geez he was a horndog! Waxing kills the first time but everytime after is easier - espec after giving birth it's nothing!

 

[babyloulou]

Yes pregnancy seemed to do the opposite to Ste!! He hardly gets any now though! Having a baby that gives you at little sleep as Ben does not make you horny!!

 

[kcw81]

I know Lou! I am surprised you guys still dtd at all! I never really feel like it anymore but i still force it once a week to keep things on an even keel with us. I am hoping with af and baby care getting a little easier in the coming years my libido will come back.

 

[Peach Blossom]

Hi ladies, I'm back. What have I missed? Xx

 

[kcw81]

Hi Jess! Not much.. Lisa ain't getting the house and I got a brazillian wax and Ben is sick and suz doesn't want to work. And V is still the newbie going thru 1st tri !