Yea the private gyno told me I'm not ovulating (well not consistently - maybe 2-3 times a year) and he said I need Clomid, the ordinary GP said I most likely wasn't, but refuses to check.
It was also the private gyno I that I paid for that diagnosed the PCOS, the GP refuses to investigate.
The only thing that the GP did do reluctantly (after months and months of asking for tests) was check my thyroid which came out as underactive....but again refuses to treat, instead ordered a retest for 8 weeks later (which was yesterday - so will get the results Tuesday) - prob just trying to buy himself time to try and bring us closer to the year mark.
I totally understand the whole waiting the year out thing for people who have what is classed as "normal" cycles, who ovulate and have a period regularly every month, but I think when someone doesn't have a period for 100 days, pcos, underactive thyroid and nine months later still isn't pg then they should be doing something about it, I know people who have had these such things investigated and had PCOS and thyroid disorders etc diagnosed and treated who aren't even ttc so I don't see what his problem is.
But yeah I guess your right if he bothered to do some investigations instead of me having to pay privately for these things and got them treated and under control that would probably be half the battle but since he is not prepared to do that then we were left with no option and are now going to get the help we need.