Huge hugs, Katrina, I am so sorry that you're having a hard time. focus on the bright side-DH had normal SA results and you O'd!! Be thankful that youre getting a referral to a FS. It may be scary, and there is a lot of unknown, but it is one step closer to getting answers and a baby! My fingers are toes are crossed that all works out easily and painlessly. Much love and hugs, and we're always here for you!