I've decided that after the first few weeks I'm gonna switch to cloth nappies but pretty much clueless about them! Can anyone recommend any brands/types and where to get them?
There really isn't a best brand (although I could probably mention a few not to touch with a bargepole!) Everyone has different life styles, different facilities, different reasons for wanting to se cloth, and different shaped babies, so it's a bot like shoes really - it's a very individual thing.
Also are they safety pinned shut or taped like disposables are?
You can choose whether you get applix (velcro) fastening, popper fastening or nippa fastening ones. Nippas have replced pins, so you never need to use pins any more!
And how many on average would I need?
I always recommend as a guide, 20 nappies and 5 waterproofs, but it depends how quickly you can get them dry.
Oh and is it okay to just throw them in the washing machine or do they need special washing powder/to be soaked first etc?
Yes, just throw them in the machine, but use very little detergent, or better still something like ecoballs. Wash at 40º if you ue a bio powder, and 60º if you use a non bio. That's it really! They don't need soaking, although it's a good idea to do a pre rinse in the machine, before you do the actual wash load. Just do a prewash programme, but without any powder in the prewash
draw. Oh and no soft rinse.
Sorry, really did mean clueless