enola
Brand new baby-led mummy
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Hello lovely ladies,
I apologise in advance if this has been asked/discussed before - I did try searching for it, and have Googled this query but can't seem to find a straight forward answer (perhaps because a lot of information on co-sleeping is American and they have the advantage of a warmer climate?).
My question is: DUVETS! Do you use one when co-sleeping? Can you use one? How?
Our first is due in March and I'm trying to get as much information together as possible. We have a Moses basket, which I figure if anything will be handy for daytime naps (although, let's face it, he'll probably be in my sling!). We're both very keen on attachment parenting, and I've been practicing baby-wearing with a doll (and feeling like a nutter in the process!).
DH is very keen on co-sleeping. I was initially skeptical, being a child of convention sometimes and easily scared by random government facts. However, after reading through lots of articles and now I have The Baby Book by the wonderful Sears & Sears, I can very much see us going down the co-sleeping/family bed route.
My primary concern is safety. We have big fluffy feather pillows and a nice downy duvet on our bed, as well as a memory foam mattress topper (although this is not 'sinky' and covered by a sheet).
I'm guessing from what I've read that our best bet is to remove the mattress topper, but I cannot seem to find ANY advice on how exactly you position baby with regards to you and your bedding. I'm a complete novice and apologise if I'm asking a ridiculous question.
We'd quite like to have the baby in between the two of us so we'd both be a guard against falling out - DH is a very light sleeper and very sensitive to movement etc. so I personally have no worries that he'll roll or accidentally knock our son.
Any advice would be so much appreciated! Thank you so much for your time in reading this
I apologise in advance if this has been asked/discussed before - I did try searching for it, and have Googled this query but can't seem to find a straight forward answer (perhaps because a lot of information on co-sleeping is American and they have the advantage of a warmer climate?).
My question is: DUVETS! Do you use one when co-sleeping? Can you use one? How?
Our first is due in March and I'm trying to get as much information together as possible. We have a Moses basket, which I figure if anything will be handy for daytime naps (although, let's face it, he'll probably be in my sling!). We're both very keen on attachment parenting, and I've been practicing baby-wearing with a doll (and feeling like a nutter in the process!).
DH is very keen on co-sleeping. I was initially skeptical, being a child of convention sometimes and easily scared by random government facts. However, after reading through lots of articles and now I have The Baby Book by the wonderful Sears & Sears, I can very much see us going down the co-sleeping/family bed route.
My primary concern is safety. We have big fluffy feather pillows and a nice downy duvet on our bed, as well as a memory foam mattress topper (although this is not 'sinky' and covered by a sheet).
I'm guessing from what I've read that our best bet is to remove the mattress topper, but I cannot seem to find ANY advice on how exactly you position baby with regards to you and your bedding. I'm a complete novice and apologise if I'm asking a ridiculous question.
We'd quite like to have the baby in between the two of us so we'd both be a guard against falling out - DH is a very light sleeper and very sensitive to movement etc. so I personally have no worries that he'll roll or accidentally knock our son.
Any advice would be so much appreciated! Thank you so much for your time in reading this