RosemaryBaby
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We've happily shared our bed with our now almost 3 year old and want to bring our newest in too. Space isn't an issue - we side car the crib to one side of our queen bed and a twin bed to the other side. Problem is that our 6 week old is loud - he's a grunter with all his gas. My dd did that, too, which kept me up but I recall it disappearing sometime before 3 months. Right now I put DD to sleep in the big bed (I nurse her to sleep) and then I come down and sleep with DS (he's exclusively BF so it doesn't make sense for DH to sleep with since he'd just have to wake me every couple of hours and get me out of bed anyway). Problem is, DD wakes up in the middle of the night or wee hours of the morning looking for me and freaks out. She won't be consoled by Daddy AT ALL (falls into hysterics pretty much) if she even wakes him, and more often than not she just comes downstairs for me without telling him (and he happily sleeps through her getting out of bed to catch the extra sleep in the big empty bed!). This is driving us all crazy. I think she'd be okay if I were in the bed with her, but don't know how to do that without waking her from his noise.
How did you all handle (successfully or otherwise) sleeping with multiples or in separate rooms with a very attached toddler not ready to stop nursing or co-sleeping?
Thanks in advance for any contributions!
How did you all handle (successfully or otherwise) sleeping with multiples or in separate rooms with a very attached toddler not ready to stop nursing or co-sleeping?
Thanks in advance for any contributions!