I'll try to make this as short as possible. I'm 39. I have a six year old and a three year old and we've been trying for just over a year for another baby. I got pregnant about 6 months ago, but miscarried at about 10 weeks. I'm hoping that since I've been pregnant three times before, that's a good sign.
BUT..... I've started having night-sweats really bad. I was wondering if this could be caused by some herbs that I'm taking. (I take Evening Primrose oil for the first two weeks of my cycle and switch to Flaxseed oil for the last two weeks) After a little research, I found that nightsweats are a sign of pre-menopause. I'm panicking right now!! I also read that Flaxseed oil is supposed to HELP. (which it's definitely NOT doing!) I'm panicking even more!
I've thought of talking to my doctor about this but I'm scared that if I tell her about the nightsweats, and the loss of CF, that she won't be willing to "help" me get pregnant. I KNOW I'm ovulating. I have a very definite temp jump and fall every month, and I'm using the Clearblue Fertility monitor and it tells me that I have 3 or 4 high fertility days each month and 2 peak days. My periods are very regular and last about 2 to 3 days, and my cycle is ALWAYS 29 days long. I have beautiful charts.
Is there anything that a doctor would be able to do to help me if I'm starting pre-menopause? We don't want to do anything huge. We are really so thankful that we do have two beautiful daughters, but is there anything simple that a doctor could do? I don't want to start fertility drugs or anything, and I know this sounds dumb, but is there a horomone pill or something that I could take to give me one last chance of getting pregnant? I'm really scared after reading all that about menopause and really need some advice right now.
BUT..... I've started having night-sweats really bad. I was wondering if this could be caused by some herbs that I'm taking. (I take Evening Primrose oil for the first two weeks of my cycle and switch to Flaxseed oil for the last two weeks) After a little research, I found that nightsweats are a sign of pre-menopause. I'm panicking right now!! I also read that Flaxseed oil is supposed to HELP. (which it's definitely NOT doing!) I'm panicking even more!
I've thought of talking to my doctor about this but I'm scared that if I tell her about the nightsweats, and the loss of CF, that she won't be willing to "help" me get pregnant. I KNOW I'm ovulating. I have a very definite temp jump and fall every month, and I'm using the Clearblue Fertility monitor and it tells me that I have 3 or 4 high fertility days each month and 2 peak days. My periods are very regular and last about 2 to 3 days, and my cycle is ALWAYS 29 days long. I have beautiful charts.
Is there anything that a doctor would be able to do to help me if I'm starting pre-menopause? We don't want to do anything huge. We are really so thankful that we do have two beautiful daughters, but is there anything simple that a doctor could do? I don't want to start fertility drugs or anything, and I know this sounds dumb, but is there a horomone pill or something that I could take to give me one last chance of getting pregnant? I'm really scared after reading all that about menopause and really need some advice right now.
And it didn't help that my sister is posting on Facebook about her pregnancy with twins. She and I had the same due-date before I miscarried. 
xxx
