KrissyB
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Hi Everybody -
So for as long as I can remember, I've been of the mindset that elective c-s was the way to go. None of the "natural" aspects of vaginal birth enticed me and the horror stories of back labor and tearing were enough to sway me. As time went by I suffered a hip injury which made c-s a medical consideration. Furthermore, the way things are progressing - I'm pregnant with a little girl (my first) who's two weeks big for her age (compared to average) and a marginal previa that needs to be monitored. So all in all, all signs pointed to just going with an elective c-s to reduce the risk of needing an emergency one.
But the closer I get to the big day... the more I start to doubt my decision, mainly for one reason: I'm afraid of being drugged up and loopy when I first meet my little girl or for the first few days of her life. I was wondering if anyone else who went w/an elective c-s could tell me if this was an issue for them, either right after delivery or due to the pain meds after. 95% of what I find online are stories from women who had emergency c-s and I'm not sure if that's entirely the same. And doctors I've spoken with so far seem a little vague on the topic.
Also, let me clarify that if I went vaginal, I am definitely going with an epidural - so it's not like I'd be completely free of drugs the other way. Is there a difference between the drugs they give you for elective c-s vs. vaginal w/epidural?
Thanks in advance for any help anyone can provide!
So for as long as I can remember, I've been of the mindset that elective c-s was the way to go. None of the "natural" aspects of vaginal birth enticed me and the horror stories of back labor and tearing were enough to sway me. As time went by I suffered a hip injury which made c-s a medical consideration. Furthermore, the way things are progressing - I'm pregnant with a little girl (my first) who's two weeks big for her age (compared to average) and a marginal previa that needs to be monitored. So all in all, all signs pointed to just going with an elective c-s to reduce the risk of needing an emergency one.
But the closer I get to the big day... the more I start to doubt my decision, mainly for one reason: I'm afraid of being drugged up and loopy when I first meet my little girl or for the first few days of her life. I was wondering if anyone else who went w/an elective c-s could tell me if this was an issue for them, either right after delivery or due to the pain meds after. 95% of what I find online are stories from women who had emergency c-s and I'm not sure if that's entirely the same. And doctors I've spoken with so far seem a little vague on the topic.
Also, let me clarify that if I went vaginal, I am definitely going with an epidural - so it's not like I'd be completely free of drugs the other way. Is there a difference between the drugs they give you for elective c-s vs. vaginal w/epidural?
Thanks in advance for any help anyone can provide!