Confused about ovulation?

[ImpatientLiz]

My husband and I are on our second month TTC. Last month I had a 34 day cycle as well as the previous month that I came off the pill. So this month I was all prepared to ovulate on CD 19. We BD on CD15, 16, 17, 19 and 20 as well as pretty regularly the week before. However, I had EWCM on CD18 and a tiny bit more on CD20. Now I'm confused? I'm now on CD22 and have a tiny bit of spotting, but that seems to early for IB. I'm also having some aching which has been ongoing since around the time I ovulated.

When an earth did I ovulate? I can't figure it out and I want to understand my cycle better for next month.

 

[cinnamum]

I think you just need to take a deep breath and relax! I'd guess that your ovulation date was roughly CD 19