Constantly worried:(

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I am 12+1 & waiting for my 12 week scan.. I am constantly worried about miscarriage or bleeding. Its so bad i cant leave the house without wearing a pad just incase, i dont even go swimming anymore. Im petrified i'll have a massive gush of blood.

To make it worse at 5 weeks (thought i was 6) i had some bleeding, i had a scan and everything was fine but its made me worry even more.
Im so nervous to go to my scan incase they cant see a heartbeat or that it died between now & 6 weeks ago when i had the scan... Anyone else constantly worried about miscarriage? Starting to get me down now...:(
 
It's very normal :hugs:
Both times I was terrified for my scan! Try not to worry :flow:
 
I was more depressed than happy about my scan. I Just knew I would go and there would be no hb. Everything was fine tho. I also bled at 6 weeks which had me scared but nothing was wrong. Try to have some fun. You wont just gush out blood randomly. Goodluck
 
Sorry you're so stressed about that Hun. But try not to wear pads everyday.. Try a panty liner, wearing pads everyday in pregnancy can increase your chances of bacterial infections, and they're no fun haha x
 
don't worry it's completely normal! and most miscarriages happen between the first few weeks, so the fact that you made it past 6 is already beating the odds if you were to have one. especially once you get your scan and realize that there is a heart beat, the chances of miscarriage are even slimmer. dont stress out because it will worry the baby. if you stay happy, the baby will stay healthy and probably won't miscarry!
 
It's completely normal to worry! I was constantly worrying when I was pregnant. Especially towards the end as when I was pregnant someone I knew and Gary Barlow wife had a stillbirth right at the end of their pregnancy so I was freaked out!

I took the mind set of if it's gonna happen then unfortunately there's nothing that can be done about it. Which I know sounds like a bad mind set but it's true and it helped me relax and enjoy my pregnancy a bit more as I knew worrying wouldn't help anything :) I'm sure your LO is fine! Some bleeding can be very normal x


PS that mind set also helped me not worry about childbirth. I figured it was natural and it was gonna happen whether I liked it or not, so there was no point worrying about it aha :p x
 
I think most mothers feel like this tbh :flower:
Its normal, and im sure everything will be fine :)
 
It's completely normal to worry- all of us have! Just try not to stress yourself out too much! The scan should help to ease your nerves. :hugs:
 
Thankyou :) i was 13 weeks this sunday going by my early scan, going from my dates im 14 weeks, & still waiting for a scan.!!!!! I cant believe it. I rang up today and they told me it could be another week yet! X
 

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