contacting FOB about money

[staycutee]

im going to contact him on facebook to give him the chance to be decent and we can work out something moneywise before i go to the csa (fb isnt ideal but only way i have of contacting the pig).

what am i meant to say?? feels a bit weirf to message saying "you need to give me money" when we havent spoken since i was 3 months pregnant. how do i phrase it? i dont want to come accross as nice cos he hasnt been at all nice yet i want to seem mature

 

[lou_w34]

Hmmm instead of asking him out right.... how about asking him if he would like to contribute to lo's upbringing... that way your not sounding to demanding and your giving him the option, hopefully he will say yes, and he wont take it the wrong way.

Then again, i dont see why you should have to pussyfoot around him either... it will probably just make life easier if you make it sound like your giving him the option rather than telling him he needs to give you money.

Hope it goes well!

xx

 

[staycutee]

thanks good idea!

how are you and scarlett? she looks so cute x

 

[lou_w34]

Thats ok!

Were doing great thanks, she was weighed today and now shes 12lb 9oz, so a lil chubber lol.

Hows you and lucas? He looks so cute in you pic! All nice and cosy!

xx

 

[purpledahlia]

yeah i agree give him an option, or a choice.. and he can hopefully do the decent thing, if he says no tho i wouldnt reply or tell him about csa, just do it.

Did you send him a msg yet? if you have already has he replied? x