My Hubby is American and we lived out there for 3 years before moving back to my native home of England for the last 3 years for my job. When I found out I was pregnant Hubby really wanted me to give birth in America so his family could be close. He has a huge close family so expecting them all to fly over is a bit much. However as it is my first child as well I really want to be near my family, I am the one in labour, so I convinced him that giving birth in England what we are going to do. However my cousin had a water birth a month ago and said it was amazing. I really want a water birth which Hubby is all cool about however I also want a home birth as I love our house. We brought the house in the area I grew up in and it was pretty run down when we first got it. We have added a floor, knocked down walls and given it such a make-over I love the place and I feel really calm and peaceful at home. Hubby though doesn't want to have a home birth as he is worried things might go wrong. He used the line let me have at least one say in the birth. So I am a bit stuck. I still have ages until we have to make a choice but I don't think Hubby is going to back down so easily. Anyone else had to really convice Hubby to have a home birth and any suggestions how?