Crazy hoover lady!!!

[Orange lady]

Hello everyone,
As I have written before, I had my missed miscarriage back mid December with an ERPC on the 16th. I've been doing pretty well or so I thought. Xmas came and went in a haze, but I have been feeling a little stronger everyday. Until today. My hoover stopped working and sent me into a hysterical state! I am sure it's my hormones/delicate mental state. But has anyone else had such a bizarre outburst? I sound like a crazy woman!!!

 

[becky77]

hi orange lady, i had my erpc on the 17th dec after a failed natural m/c in oct , i have had a couple of days were i was like a woman possessed the slightest thing would have me flying of the handle and then crying and i could normally tell cos i just woke up feeling like today was bad. this has not really happened for a few weeks a i am feeling very positive now, so i hope you turn the corner soon too, but fear not your not crazy.

hope you feel better soon.

x

 

[Orange lady]

Thanks Becky,
I start back to work tomorrow for the first time after all this and Christmas. I think it'll either be a godsend or a nightmare. But I am so wanting to get back to normal. I am normally pretty strong minded, but right now, some days I am and others I am a wreck!!!
Let's hope time helps.
Thanks for your reply.

 

[jen1604]

I remember doing the exact same thing but with a kettle.It will get easier with time,I promise xx

 

[Sara-Rose89]

i had my erpc in november, and got annoyed over something on the bus a couple of days after the op, and i turned into crazy crying lady, i guess as you said our delicate state of mind etc after the op and emotions + hormone, anything can set us off.

hope you feel better now

 

[Orange lady]

Thanks girls. Feeling a little better today. Back to work and "normal" whatever that is these days. It's odd because I can be fine for ages, then something ridiculous will set me off!

 

[Sara-Rose89]

the grieving(sp?) process can take along time, just take every day as it comes, things will get easier i promise, and its completely normal for little things to set you off, it happens to me all the time

 

[Wishfull]

Sorry for your loss sweetie. Its been 11weeks for me since my m/c. And it is getting easyier. Though every now and then something will set me off. Its totally normal to go crazy or cry even in the most of public places like i have done. I wish you well in your recovery. But dont feel like you have to bottle it up.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[LoubyLou85]

I had my ERPC on the 19th Dec after a MMC (the alternative was medical management with a day on the ward at hospital on the 23rd Dec which was too close to Christmas for me). In the last (nearly) 3 weeks I have found myself being absolutely fine talking about what had happened one minute and then bursting into tears the next with nothing specific to prompt it. I went back to work on Monday and have found that keeping busy makes things easier for me.....it's when I'm alone and my mind wanders that I stop and realise that I'm playing things over in my head again and get myself upset or I realise I have been having a conversation with myself!

I think we're all entitled to a little madness given what we've been through recently! Don't beat yourself up about it.

 

[Drazic<3]

Aww hun, i really relate to what your saying. When we are trying to keep everything inside and hold it together it can be the most stupid things which set you off. Please dont feel bad and dont bottle it up. Let yourself grieve. Im so sorry for your loss

 

[Orange lady]

Thanks girls. Well it's been almost a week since I posted my original message. I bought a new hoover !! And to be honest I feel so much better. I feel that my mood has lifted 100%! I am sure that I will have bad days and I expect those but to feel relatively normal again is a massive relief. Just waiting for to arrive.
Thanks for all your words of support, this is the place to be if you need to feel better!

 

[becky77]

Glad your feeling better hun x

 

[Orange lady]

SO much!! People always say that time's a healer but it's true.

 

[Drazic<3]

So glad to hear your feeling better, and nice one on the new hoover.
Some days will be harder than others, if your feeling down dont feel afraid to cry. Honestly, we are all there with you.

Keep smiling