Curvy ladies

[Tizy]

Hehe, we're right chatter boxes today!

Jade, my friend Rosanna had a baby last November and called him Blake, its really suits him, its a lovely name Defo ask to tilt your bed up a bit at the scan hunny, you should be able to see, its your baby! Don't be scared and if the sonographer is off with you, tell them you're not happy! Its a special moment that you should enjoy to the full!

No periods are great, it defo makes things easier. TBH I'd forgotton all about them!

Jayne, the Stork Exchange is a shop where mums bring in baby clothes and the owner will sell them on their behalf and make commission on each item! Unfortunately its closing down at the end of this month! Its not making enough money, great idea tho!

Rach, yes I'm not too enamoured by the credit card bill but we've just no way of getting stuff otherwise. I have loads of debt from when I had my cafe, i'll be paying it off for another 18 months and its 4 years since the cafe closed! Ideally I'd love to pay upfront but Mark and my incomes are pretty low and no savings!

Helen, thanks for the blind idea. My friend's little girl is called Megan and we all call her 'Meggy Moo' its so cute!

Wish this last hour would hurry up and finish! I got invited to my friends for tea but its with all her 'clicky' mates and they'll all be drinking so I've said I'm tired, can't be bothered with them at mo tbh, do you think i'm cutting off my nose to spite my face? I've been moaning about not having many mates. Its just I only ever get invited to their 'Wednesday Wine Club' when my friend Lucy has it at her house, so i know they're not that bothered with me!

Han Xxx

 

[cranberry987]

hmm, weds wine club, do you go often? if not then maybe you dont get invited to the others' houses because they dont think youll go. Its fricking stupid tbh but thats how ppl work, fear of rejection etc. They cant get too ratted on a weds surely? Could you take some shloer or alch free beer then youre not feeling too left out? I find that alch free beer does actually make me feel a bit pissed, then i realise theres no alcohol in it and sober up lol, all psychological!

Oh, i forgot to say, I mailed some ppl off netmums today, wonder if theyll reply. Anyone know if the reply will be emailed to me or do I have to check the website?

 

[pink sparkle]

Helen you will be suprised at how quickly you are up for a bit of action after baby has arrived, not necessary for rampant hot passion but for the intimacy and closeness with your hubby after going through such an amazing thing as having a baby together.

I had two injections after ds and then we started trying and it took us nearly a year, ive heard that your super fertile straight away too, breast feeding is supposed to be a sort of contraception to a point though too (or so ive heard although not 100% reliable).

Lunges lol! Im already overweight and could hardly do them before i was pregnant lol! hopefully their will be something a lil easier to try lol or i may end up in a&e! I spend a lot of time on all fours cleaning the floors (just dont get on with a mop and bucket for some reason). This is supposed to help with back to back hopefully transverse too.

 

[pink sparkle]

I think you have to log in to your netmums account to get any replies...i think!

 

[xheartsx]

You should get an update to say you have a private message, then just log on to netmums to read it! I had a few replies a while back, but not for ages. I still think it's so sucky we're all miles away from each other

Han, i will definitely ask about my chair being tilted. Like you said, its a very special moment, and it only happens twice through the whole 9 months, so i want to see as much as i can.

I can't wait to get home either. I don't blame you for not going to this wine night. It's no fun when everybody around you is drinking, and especially if they are all clicky, and have all these inside jokes and you're like i have no idea what's going on!

X

 

[pink sparkle]

At our hospital there are screens up on the wall opposite the bed for the mum to see too, anychance this could be the case for you tomorrow? x

 

[Tizy]

hmm, weds wine club, do you go often? if not then maybe you dont get invited to the others' houses because they dont think youll go. Its fricking stupid tbh but thats how ppl work, fear of rejection etc. They cant get too ratted on a weds surely? Could you take some shloer or alch free beer then youre not feeling too left out? I find that alch free beer does actually make me feel a bit pissed, then i realise theres no alcohol in it and sober up lol, all psychological!

Oh, i forgot to say, I mailed some ppl off netmums today, wonder if theyll reply. Anyone know if the reply will be emailed to me or do I have to check the website?

No its not that, its just that they're all really good friends and I tryed to join in but then often got left out, its silly, but I can't be bothered with that sort of thing anyhow! I tried, it failed. And yes they do get quite pissed on occasion!! Even on a wednesday night, not all of them work you see, it sometimes gets quite wild actually! It is fun when ya drinking but not when ya preggers!

Hope you get some relies, sure you will and yes you have to log in to see replies, but should get an email to tell you.

Xxx

 

[xheartsx]

Well i'm not sure. They didn't have this at my 12 week scan, but it would be amazing if they did! I will just ask extra nicely if they can tilt the screen slightly or the bed so i can see. I think i will maybe only be like the 2nd of the day as it's at 8.40, so hopefully they won't be too sick of scanning babies all day!

 

[cranberry987]

Have a look on https://www.spinningbabies.com/baby-positions/all-positions/sideways

Theres some techniques to help, one of them is doing a headstand in a pool or water, dont know exactly how you would do that tho lol.

Dont read the parts about why transverse is bad tho, im sure the baby has moved, at 22w theres looooads of space and they do somersaults all day.

 

[cranberry987]

Just found these

pics of someone with them on https://www.babyandbump.com/pregnan...101-got-b-bump-found-something-awesome-3.html

 

[Cherrybinky]

Wow loads has gone on since was here before dinner lol

Thanks for the link Helen, I shall deffo have a read. Theres no way anyone is filming me giving birth, screaming in pain (which I dont intend to do but you never know) lol
I love Megan, my Uncles puppy is called Meg and we call her MegWeg lol.

Im supposed to be meeting someone from NetMums tomorrow and Ive had LOADS of messages on it but I just cant bring myself to do it I havent mentioned it again and took my advert off.

I made cottage pie for tea, was lovely. Isobel didnt eat hers so she had no pudding and got her doggy taken off her for bed (yes were THAT strict). So she had a paddy. Then, when Id calmed her down we ran them their bath and she screamed blue murder because Id put bubbles in it and the calm collected approach with her didnt work so I washed her hair roughly and dragged her out! She is now asleep!
Xander and I started a game of chess and hes been very good.

I just found out Alexander Skarsgard who plays Eric in True Blood was in Leeds yesterday collecting his degree. HOW THE HELL DID I MISS OUT ON THAT!
https://askarsgard.com/?p=19050

xx

 

[cranberry987]

aw no, thats such a shame you missed him.

how come you dont want to meet up? worried about the meeting? you might find that you rly enjoy it if you can find a way to go. i understand about anxiety but if you allow yourself to give into it the anxiety reinforces itself and gets stronger. not saying go and suck it up, not at all, I understand how hard things can me. have to think of some way you can make it less stressful tho. could you change the venue to somewhere you feel more comfortable? somewhere on your turf. or conversely somewhere totally neutral so theyre not in your territory iykwim.

or maybe you need to have a bit more online chat contact with them first, maybe call them for a chat on the phone and see how that goes?

been looking at birthing pools, they all seem v expensive so might get one off ebay but hmmmmm not sure if id trust it to not have a hole in and flood the living room!

 

[sunshine623]

Wow, I've missed a lot in 2 days! Can't remember everything to reply to, but with the names, I love Zane and Blaine, too! And Megan is a good one, too!

Jade, good luck on your scan tomorrow! Can't wait to hear what you're having!

Han, I know what you mean about not going to the Wine Wed. A girl I was good friends with growing up is having her bachelorette party (don't you all call it a hen party or something? Saw that when Will and Kate were getting married) Saturday, and I don't think I'm gonna go either. It would be different if I could drink, because I wouldn't mind so much that I don't know the other girls. But I can't imagine going sober with all of them drinking! Plus they're all friends, and I don't really know many of them. I'm definitely going to her wedding on the 30th, but think I'll skip the bachelorette party.

Been a good couple of days here, just insanely hot and humid. It's supposed to be over 100 degrees F tomorrow! BOOOOOO!

 

[cranberry987]

I've got a hen do aug 6th. Spa day then night out. Knowing the hen (lovely girl but totally has a stick up her ass) it'll not be too rowdy altho I'd love to get her ratarsed. I've checked with the spa and the whirlpool is 37 degs so fine for me to sit in. Think I'll probably leave about 9pm or so. The club they're going to will be full of underage chavs. I have told them it's not a great choice(I'm local, they live an hour away) but they're not taken my suggestion. Even tho I'm right!!

My body pillow has gone to crap. Anyone else had this? It's like separated in the middle so is now two lumps instead of a sausage. I'd take it back but it's Argos and theyre twats about used stuff. Had it since 4w fair enough but 14w using a pillow is shit. Think I'll buy a second and it should last me to term ish

 

[Tizy]

Morning Amy and Helen,

Hi everyone else.

Amy, after reflecting on it last night, I was glad I didn't go. You'll have a great time at the Wedding, I went to one a few weeks ago, lasted till 12.30am, which I thought was pretty good, since we'd been there since 2pm! At least you can enjoy the food at weddings

Helen, awww hope your booby is better today....hehehe. My V-shaped pillow went all thin, and wasn't supporting me enough so I've bought another one, it was only £10 from ebay so I don't mind, and I've had it since about week 8! I figured, once this new one goes crap, I'll put the two pillows in one case and then use it for breastfeeding.

Ok, so who is Chris Hindle, own up! tehehe, I added you into Curvy Ladies on Facebook. I'm in a silly mood today! I presume its one of the ladies from here. I've forgotton all the names. Seasider maybe? Or baby deacon? I just can't remember.

Eeeeeeek can't wait to hear Jade's news! She should know by now.

At work again, last day, then 4 days off! Whoopieeeeeeeeeeee Xxx

 

[no1seasider]

Yep,it's me! should have said!!

 

[Rees]

Jayne - the pox in my crack makes me laugh too, theres nothing sacred when it comes to chicken pox I have them in my pubes too so I'm not a happy bunny

Rach - how the hell did he get your PIN? Is it somewhere on the forums?

Cranberry - Pasties ARE healthy, all that veg in them, yum!

Jade - I've just chuckled over you calling Dougies little man 'winky' I call Luke's 'little Luke' it's not as bad as my first boyfriend who'd call his Percy

Han - How's your Dad doing now? Your weekend sounds much better than mine

Rach - I hate panic attacks, have had a few and have suffered anxiety, and depression all related to trauma as I turned 16. I hate how I'm gonna be monitored for PND again

As for DTD we obviously aren't at it but have had amazing sex since being pregnant, but we found that after I had Tegan it was better than before

I'm about to hit pg 120 but have to stop reading because I gotta get my ass dressed and to the GP's again.

They've now decided there is a tablet I'm allowed to take, also gonna get them to find the baby's heartbeat, have had a little bit of spotting and have had some cramps. Yesterday I spent most of the day in bed with a massive headache, light sensitivity and sore neck. Was majorily sick in the evening, had to get my dad to stop the car on the way to out of hours doc so I could be sick out the side, don't think he was impressed Did the same with Tegan, parked up outside Tesco, as he was coming out of the store he saw me leaning out of the car to be sick, he got a new car last year so I've now christened both of his Corsa's

Will catch up later..

 

[Tizy]

Oh Leigh, poor you sweetie, sounds like your having a bit of a rough time. Hope the docs can reassure you and your spotting clears up.

Thanks for asking about Dad, he's recovering well from the op, getting better every day. The docs checked is bowel and they said the cancer hadn't penetrated the gut wall and so it shouldn't have spread, but just in case one or two cells got through they want him to have one short (6month) course of chemo, but its low dosage and shouldn't be invasive (tablet form) and they've said that hopefully he won't get any of the bad side effects like losing hair.

Awww I wish Jade would hurry and get back here, dying to hear her news. Xxx

 

[pink sparkle]

Ahh Leigh so sorry your suffering hope your feeling better soon x

Han have you been on facebook? Jade has been on with her news congratulations Jade fab news and great pics xxx

 

[Cherrybinky]

Hi girls,

catch up:

Helen, I didnt want to go as I would have liked to have chatted to her online first and got to know her. Also, she wanted to come here to my house which Pete wasnt comfy with so she asked me to go there. She lives a good way off and it was bus fares and I dont know the area at all. I decided not to go and luckily, she didnt contact me anyway.

I really need a spa day!

*waves* to Chris. We have a name LOL. x

Leigh, yes my pin is somwhere on the forums so sadly, my own fault. I put it there ages ago on a post someone had started for BBM contacts. Normally I dont mind at all as its free and I cant talk to who I want but when they start asking for photos, I draw the line totally lol.
Hope youre feeling better, being sick and travelling isnt nice

I am now going to see what Jades news is

I am actually furious right now. I stupidly copied a status onto my facebook that I agreed with about not funding other countries while our own is suffering and 2 of my friends, AND my own partner have totally ripped me to shreds saying Im wrong in many ways as its our countries fault that lots of parts of the world are in the state theyre in etc. My heart is pounding and Im livid. I support THIS country and its people and I wont send my money abroad and Im pissed off because its MY status, MY view and I will not be shot down

Hope youre all ok. Im trying to crochet and getting annoyed!
x