cutting grapes

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Those that say they monitor their children, what would you do if you found they were struggling or started choking? I'm not asking this as trying to be rude but genuinely want to know for my knowledge-what are you supposed to do?

By monitor I mean I literally watch her eating every single grape - she has to bite them in half lengthways and show me she's done it. That's why I never let her have them when I need to monitor the younger kids too, as I wouldn't be able to monitor so strictly. She's in the habit of always biting lengthways now (to he extent that she had a round grape the other day and asked me which way to bite). If she started refusing to bite in the right way and show me then I would start cutting again.