Damn you facebook!!!

[Kittymommy]

Logged on to facebook today to read a post by someone who wrote:"Every morning I wake up and think dangit I'm still pregnant." Ummm..... I thought of commenting that I have the opposite problem and that I would gladly trade her. I hate to be the wake up and smell the roses lady, but I can't take the complaints anymore. Thanks I just needed to complain to people who know what this feels like.

 

[heres_hoping]

Ugh it's so annoying. I have lost several "friends" over the last few months for things like that.

Hate Facebook sometimes.

 

[trying hard]

Hope your feeling better now FB really is cruel sometimes for us LTTTCers.

I have a friend who knows of our struggles who is now 8 weeks pregnant with TWINS and she wont shut the F*** up about feeling fat or queezy or whatever...Seriously get over it. I would take queezy over crappy S/A and clomid crazies any day. GRRR. I'm angry for you.

 

[Ltruns33]

That's the exact reason why I deactivated mine for a while. Found out a girl I haaaate (not friends with on fb - but she was tagged in a pic) is pregnant. I love most people- but this girl..manipulative, catty, just horrible. Finding out she was pregnant + every other baby update in fb just depressed me! Fb causes me more grief and envy than it does good right now. I had to deactivate for my peace of mind.

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Ive deactivated my facebook too. I cant stand pregnant people complaining either x

 

[Wishing1010]

I know how you feel...I just stopped going on FB any longer. People just complain about their pregnancy rather than embrace and be thankful they are lucky enough to be pregnant!!! I have a friend at the office who has an almost 4 year old that says I should be thankful we are have fertility issues because having a kid is horrible. Makes me want to just slap her. I adore her little boy and she just wishes she never had him.

Makes me wonder why people like that are able to bear children and people like myself who loves children cannot.

*sigh*

 

[Kittymommy]

I'm thinking it's time for a FB fast for me. Nothing good has been coming from it lately and all the complainers are due, and they do birth story pictures. That you know will be posted. So now is probably a great time for me to disappear off fb. Thanks for the support ladies

 

[Mikihob]

Logged on to facebook today to read a post by someone who wrote:"Every morning I wake up and think dangit I'm still pregnant." Ummm..... I thought of commenting that I have the opposite problem and that I would gladly trade her. I hate to be the wake up and smell the roses lady, but I can't take the complaints anymore. Thanks I just needed to complain to people who know what this feels like.

I hate that!!
At my old job a co-worker of mine got pregnant after 1 month of trying and during her pregnancy she was pretty ok, but then she found out the sex. She cried for over two weeks because she was having a boy and wanted a girl. Hello, be glad you are pregnant. Afterwards, she told me that if I didn't hurry she would have two kids before I even had one. WOW. Insensitive people.

One of my friends has had a pretty emotional, hard pregnancy and all she does is complain. Yes, I understand she is miserable, but never once have I heard excitement about the baby. It makes me so sad.

I want to post on Facebook...I am LTTTC stop complaining!!

 

[Wishing1010]

Logged on to facebook today to read a post by someone who wrote:"Every morning I wake up and think dangit I'm still pregnant." Ummm..... I thought of commenting that I have the opposite problem and that I would gladly trade her. I hate to be the wake up and smell the roses lady, but I can't take the complaints anymore. Thanks I just needed to complain to people who know what this feels like.

I hate that!!
At my old job a co-worker of mine got pregnant after 1 month of trying and during her pregnancy she was pretty ok, but then she found out the sex. She cried for over two weeks because she was having a boy and wanted a girl. Hello, be glad you are pregnant. Afterwards, she told me that if I didn't hurry she would have two kids before I even had one. WOW. Insensitive people.

One of my friends has had a pretty emotional, hard pregnancy and all she does is complain. Yes, I understand she is miserable, but never once have I heard excitement about the baby. It makes me so sad.

I want to post on Facebook...I am LTTTC stop complaining!!

Geez...I cannot believe that she would be upset because it was a boy. PLEASE give me any baby is what I keep begging. They just don't know how well they have it.

 

[Mikihob]

Totally agree Wishing1010.

 

[gprunner]

That's the exact reason why I deactivated mine for a while. Found out a girl I haaaate (not friends with on fb - but she was tagged in a pic) is pregnant. I love most people- but this girl..manipulative, catty, just horrible. Finding out she was pregnant + every other baby update in fb just depressed me! Fb causes me more grief and envy than it does good right now. I had to deactivate for my peace of mind.

Hi Lt! I see we've both moved boards I have my 1st RE apt. tomorrow. Just hoping for some hope and some answers. What about you?

 

[Elz]

I can't bare that either! If they don't want to be pregnant then they should have used protection. End of. It makes me so angry that people who have unwanted pregnancies whinge and moan about being pregnant or having a child. They don't know how fortunate they are!

 

[sallyhansen76]

I agree completely with everything being said!! I deactivated fb for awhile to, but brought it back. Depending on the day, sometimes im hopeul. Others im not.

I think the wrost was another lttc (25 months) finally got her bfp and complained ALL throught the pregnancy. I mean, she knew exactly how it felt being in our position and every day is a new post about how hard it is.

 

[Kittymommy]

And in reality probably the people who don't suffer from infertility are sick of always hearing it to. I guess if nothing else it's a good lesson on how to bug people on fb

 

[Wishing1010]

And in reality probably the people who don't suffer from infertility are sick of always hearing it to. I guess if nothing else it's a good lesson on how to bug people on fb

Haha, going to use this trick from now on when people irritate me on there!

 

[291]

I can so relate. I wish I could just tell them to stfu and be happy they're blessed with a viable pregnancy and a baby due only weeks away. I'd trade them in an instant.
I promise not to complain of symptoms when pregnant.... when.... when it happens.

 

[Wishing1010]

I can so relate. I wish I could just tell them to stfu and be happy they're blessed with a viable pregnancy and a baby due only weeks away. I'd trade them in an instant.
I promise not to complain of symptoms when pregnant.... when.... when it happens.

I promise not to as well. And hehe, yeah, WHEN it happens!!!!!!!

 

[Ltruns33]

That's the exact reason why I deactivated mine for a while. Found out a girl I haaaate (not friends with on fb - but she was tagged in a pic) is pregnant. I love most people- but this girl..manipulative, catty, just horrible. Finding out she was pregnant + every other baby update in fb just depressed me! Fb causes me more grief and envy than it does good right now. I had to deactivate for my peace of mind.

Hi Lt! I see we've both moved boards I have my 1st RE apt. tomorrow. Just hoping for some hope and some answers. What about you?

Hey gprunner! Yes, moved over here bc I was tired of seeing three month ttc'ers whining about stuff- lol- figured I finally belong over here! I'm doing ok; ups and downs! I have lap scheduled and am nervous! Mainly bc I'm afraid they won't find anything to "fix". I just want my doc to fix me! Lol! But lap is a prerequirement for us to move on to iui. So, bring it on!

 

[gprunner]

That's the exact reason why I deactivated mine for a while. Found out a girl I haaaate (not friends with on fb - but she was tagged in a pic) is pregnant. I love most people- but this girl..manipulative, catty, just horrible. Finding out she was pregnant + every other baby update in fb just depressed me! Fb causes me more grief and envy than it does good right now. I had to deactivate for my peace of mind.

Hi Lt! I see we've both moved boards I have my 1st RE apt. tomorrow. Just hoping for some hope and some answers. What about you?

Hey gprunner! Yes, moved over here bc I was tired of seeing three month ttc'ers whining about stuff- lol- figured I finally belong over here! I'm doing ok; ups and downs! I have lap scheduled and am nervous! Mainly bc I'm afraid they won't find anything to "fix". I just want my doc to fix me! Lol! But lap is a prerequirement for us to move on to iui. So, bring it on!

Are there any suspisions of endo or fibroids and that's why your'e doing lap? It seems crazy just to do it! We met with the fs for the 1st time last week and I'm off to get a bunch of cycle day 3 tests and also the saline ultrasound later this month. At this point though it seems to be my husband's morph He is getting tested again this week probably. They gave me a percentage on their criteria >8% we keep trying, 3-7% we do IUI, and under 3% we're headed for IVF. Ugh...I just want results. I am happy to be starting this process because summer vacation is coming and hopefully we can get somewhere without absences. How are you doing with all of this?

 

[amytrisha]

This thread is how I feel on a daily basis, people on Facebook constantly moaning about their kids and being pregnant.. They obviously don't realise there is people who'd trade places in a heartbeat.
I always say that when its my turn I'm gonna appreciate & cherish it so much more, I'm sure we all will. X