Dating and avoiding creepy people

[omfgski]

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[Dezireey]

Well for a start try to keep all dates away from your child/ren until you get serious with them and get to know them a lot better. A man that wants to go out with you to get to your children will not hang around if you stipulate that no man gets to be introduced to your kids unless the relationship gets really serious.

I know it might be difficult to manouver but im determined, when im ready to meet someone, that my boy will not get to know them and get attached to them unless im going to marry the guy. Any man that has a real problem with that, I will be asking why he needs to be introduced to my son unless necessary and hell have to put up with dates at his house and me not staying over, end of.

I shudder to think that there are men out there that do this, that you are talking about. Lets hope they are rare and easily obvious to spot.

 

[omfgski]

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[Danie1stbaby]

I am sorry you and your sister were in the presence of a sicko! Omg what a close call~ This is a huge fear of mine.My mom recently told me I needed to breathe...I told her when or if I move in with a guy(husband) ,I would have a lock on my baby's door that only I have a key to.I would put a baby monitor in her room that he knows nothing about..etc etc I am going crazy about that whole situation.I am a new mom to a 8 month old and I am so afraid.So many sickos prey upon single mothers to get to their children.My classmate's 3 yr old was murdered by her bf while she was at work in february.I am just obsessed with protecting my baby~ I have recently decided not to move away for 12 weeks and leave her...I can't! I so understand you I woke up in the middle of the night when she was like a week old,her dad was changing her diaper...I freaked out..silently but he saw my face and it pissed me off so badly.I did not care! Don't want anyone changing her diapers either...I am a little too freaked out.I might need counseling,bc my poor child will probably not leave my eye sight,which isn't right for her future social life.

I recently met a guy online who has a daughter too,I am liking him...but after reading about your mom's story..I am even more nervous.No need for anyone to meet your baby unless they are walking down the aisle.I don't care if the guy I date is offended.You have to protect your baby no matter what

 

[Shezza84uk]

I am sorry you and your sister were in the presence of a sicko! Omg what a close call~ This is a huge fear of mine.My mom recently told me I needed to breathe...I told her when or if I move in with a guy(husband) ,I would have a lock on my baby's door that only I have a key to.I would put a baby monitor in her room that he knows nothing about..etc etc I am going crazy about that whole situation.I am a new mom to a 8 month old and I am so afraid.So many sickos prey upon single mothers to get to their children.My classmate's 3 yr old was murdered by her bf while she was at work in february.I am just obsessed with protecting my baby~ I have recently decided not to move away for 12 weeks and leave her...I can't! I so understand you I woke up in the middle of the night when she was like a week old,her dad was changing her diaper...I freaked out..silently but he saw my face and it pissed me off so badly.I did not care! Don't want anyone changing her diapers either...I am a little too freaked out.I might need counseling,bc my poor child will probably not leave my eye sight,which isn't right for her future social life.

I recently met a guy online who has a daughter too,I am liking him...but after reading about your mom's story..I am even more nervous.No need for anyone to meet your baby unless they are walking down the aisle.I don't care if the guy I date is offended.You have to protect your baby no matter what

I intend to get camera in my kids room and know exactly what's going on at every opportunity. I hate having to second guess and its not exactly healthy going into a relationship thinking he could be a molester but it happens too often I'm more inclined to date single fathers although that sometimes means nothing x

 

[Danie1stbaby]

I agree~ You can never be too careful these days.Unfortunately molesters have children sometimes too just nerve wrecking and sad that we have to even think about this sort of thing.Children own parents could be insane too~ I guess being cautious is a good thing too.Great quality to have as a mommy♥

 

[sixtwelve09]

maybe you could hold off on telling the person you have kids at all until a few dates in? or maybe be very vague about your childs gender/age?