Hi, I have been stalking a bit and would like to join? I really dislike admitting to myself how much debt were in!!
We are at that stage now where things are not too tight and were in the repayment stage rather than the build it up stage and that's where I'd like it to stay. My debts are around £8000 from a credit card and old student loan, I pay off around £180 per month to those at the moment. I also have a £2000 overdraft but just trying to prioritise the debt at the moment. I don't know what kind of state hubbies finances are in either but I suspect not great. We pay our bills together but apart from that everything is separate. I think now is the time to discuss combining all our money, salary and debts and each just have a bit of spending money. I get the feeling this is how most couples work?
Anyway thanks for reading I was just thinking aloud!
So I guess my goal for this year is continue to chip away at the debt £180 a month and not build up more debt whilst on mat leave.
Yep, we have a bills account where all the money initially goes. I then divvy up the money to pay bills, into the joint account (spends account for shopping, extra purchases for the house etc) and to hubby's personal account. He has expensive hobbies so it's easier if I can just say that's what he have spare rather than him asking for money all the time. He has been working P/T and all his wages bar about £100 in December (went a bit mad at Christmas lol) he keeps.
Definitely talk about it thoroughly, then make sure you know who has responsibility for what, then move forward. You need to both know what the plan is, and work in the same direction, otherwise it'll just keep getting undone.
Have you worked out what you owe and how long it'll take to repay to see if you can prioritise things?
I agree, there's no point me scrimping if he's spending all his money! I've always been the bigger earner (I never spent it on myself) but I've found it hard to ask for money.
Oh gosh.... How much do we owe... There's a question.
There is about £2800 on an old student loan, I took it to repay over 10 years, god knows why! I pay £84 a month on that. A while back I rang to see if it would be better to pay it off sooner but they said probably not.
Then I have about £4700 on a credit card. I'm on an interest free period at the moment as long as I don't spend on it so I am purely paying that off at the moment at £110 a month. Then there is my £2000 overdraft which I never really saw as debt it was just always there....
Hubby has £4000 credit card.
I think if we can somehow join all the debts together and pay more a month that would make it easier to manage. I just don't know whether the best thing would be to try and get another credit card with interest free period, a loan or something else?!