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Yeah, he is not wanting me, I made that clear that it will never happen, but he wants us to be friends ect - which is fair.
In all honesty, i have bi-polar and suffered with depression, I have been in and out of hospital ect and always on medication. I started to get a grip and decided to date him totry get a bit of self confidence back, but instead I feel now I am tied to having him in my life forever - like a punishment.
I just want to be able to have my baby and bond with her, but I just feel like he is going to be snatching her off me, I know he is the dad and it takes 2 to tango, and I dont have a problems with him seeing her, but I don't want him in my face and life every week becasue how will I ever move on? This is causing me quite a bit of depression and i'm really spiraling, my mental health worker has started to notice and I have been trying to keep them all off my scent and just get on with it, because i DON'T want any of this using against me and I know he will.
I don't think police would really be any help right now, and I don't want it to come to that, he is not a bad guy at all, but his eagerness is really annoying me and worrying me. I feel like I should be so happy about it all.
In all honesty, i have bi-polar and suffered with depression, I have been in and out of hospital ect and always on medication. I started to get a grip and decided to date him totry get a bit of self confidence back, but instead I feel now I am tied to having him in my life forever - like a punishment.
I just want to be able to have my baby and bond with her, but I just feel like he is going to be snatching her off me, I know he is the dad and it takes 2 to tango, and I dont have a problems with him seeing her, but I don't want him in my face and life every week becasue how will I ever move on? This is causing me quite a bit of depression and i'm really spiraling, my mental health worker has started to notice and I have been trying to keep them all off my scent and just get on with it, because i DON'T want any of this using against me and I know he will.
I don't think police would really be any help right now, and I don't want it to come to that, he is not a bad guy at all, but his eagerness is really annoying me and worrying me. I feel like I should be so happy about it all.
would your mental health worker maybe have a word with him and tell him how much stress this is putting on you and its not doing you or the baby any good and to back off a bit?
maybe he doenst realise he is suffocating you? maybe he thinks he is helping you?
doesnt make it wasier though does it? big hugs!!
maybe he doenst realise he is suffocating you? maybe he thinks he is helping you?
doesnt make it wasier though does it? big hugs!!
