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[LTEx]

i dont know your ex, but just by reading your posts & certainly after the spoiler i actually want to punch his face in lol! You're coping brilliantly hun & i have no doubt what so ever that you're a fab mum, ignore him! Easier said than done i know & i know its easy for me to try & give you advice or try to make you feel better when i'm not in the situation myself.. Wish there was something i could do i cant believe he's that hellbent on making yours & your daughters life hell cant you get advice from anyone? What about citizens advice?

 

[KayteeB]

He sounds like a total ******* to be honest and i do not blame you at all for wanting to get as far away from him as possible. Your daughter does not need someone like that in her life and your a better mum and dad to her than he'll ever be!

Id agree + go to citizens advice. They'll be able to give you the best advice you need to help you out of this awful situation

Sending a massive big hug xxx

 

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[KayteeB]

bloody ridiculous !
Makes me so angry it does
well then hun what id do is make sure every visit is supervised and take it from there xx

 

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[Lemonflower]

Aww Crumbs. I'm so sorry you feel this way. FOB will have supervised visits when LO is born but then apply for unsupervised and it makes me sick.....

Does anyone know what time scale it is before a court date mediation ect......

I also feel like running away......

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[judge12]

Oh you can't leave him alone with her...you do hear about men just running off with the kids.

If I was you I move away

 

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[dustbunny]

I would record what he says and does. Can you not set up a camcorder hidden in your living room or something for when he visits, so he can't see it or the recording light. That way not only is it audio but visual evidence too. He sounds like a right idiot and I really think you should kick up as much fuss as possible so he doesn't get to see your LO on his own. I really do think if FOB's are dicks then it becomes the responsibility/decision of the child whether they want to see their dad or not at a reasonable age.

I hate our law system, it is such a joke. Keep your head up!

 

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