Makena has ASD, as you know, but she also was diagnosed almost a year ago, with Apraxia, which is basically low muscle tone as well. She has issues holding pencils in school, and will be entitled to a laptop computer, although we have been working very hard with her using playdough etc...squeezing it to try and strengthen her hands. She can't do buttons, zippers, belts, etc...which, being almost 7, but the size of a 9 year old (wears size 10 clothes) is VERY difficult to find pants without buttons, zippers or snaps!!! I know this is ahead of your little guy...funnily enough, Makena crawled early (but not a typical crawl...she butt-scooted) and walked at 10mths, and her apraxia mainly has to do with her hands and muscle tone (can't use a fork either...although we make her use one! lol) and balance...so things like riding a bike etc, is difficult. Keep plugging away. I tell Makena she needs to work 10 times harder than anyone else, but I also give her LOTS to do with dance, and swimming so she gets regular practice but having fun. Of course, her autism is the hardest thing she has to deal with, and apparently those with autism often has apraxia as well. One thing I do not do, is baby her!!! I realize that things are hard for her, not just physically, but her understanding and social cues...but, she has to work harder...it's not her fault, for sure, but she has to try. Speech and occupational therapy have done wonders for her...at the beginning a 'diagnosis' can be scary...still scares me really....but information and support is key, and that will come with time. x x