depression issues

[starryeye31]

I had an early m/c on April 17th , I was 6 weeks , every since then i have been so depressed I feel like a part of me is missing , no matter what happens or what I do that feeling dont go away , this is the 3rd baby I have lost , I have other children so I know I can have babies . every since I lost that pregnancy I have been buying tons of baby clothes , my 15 year old daughter thinks im crazy and says im buying clothes for my imaginable baby , I really dont know why im doing this , DH and I are ttc but so far nothing .

 

[owo]

So sorry to hear that you are feeling so down. I have had one loss and can't imagine how I would feel to loose three.
Don't worry about the fact that you are buying baby clothes, if it makes you feel better or gives you something to be positive about then do it.
I recently took up knitting and am now knitting a baby blanket. I personally have to do something positive otherwise i would be depressed.
Take care of yourself.
xx

 

[NikiJJones]

So sorry to hear about your loss. I'm also struggling to come to terms with my recent MC. The sense of loss is overwhelming. Sending you lots of hugs and more hugs.
If you want to buy baby clothes then go ahead and buy. I've still felt the urge to go and get maternity clothes and the pram I'd found which I liked.
Think positive: you will be dressing a little one in those clothes soon with any luck!!!!
I'm here if you need to chat.
xxxx

 

[todteach]

Starreye: Honey, you're buying baby clothes because you are grieving, and that's perfectly normal. You also have hopes of your successful pregnancy, in the near future. You will need those clothes soon enough. Sending you Please take care of yourself. Get lots of rest if you're able to. And while you're shopping if you buy to much, I'll give you my address. hahaha. Seriously though, we're thinking of you. You're going through this rough time with all of us. We are all so lucky to have eachother to lean on in this forum. We all have our own ways of grieving.
Lots of love

Niki:I'm still wearing my maternity clothes, when I'm at home. I don't think that I'm trying to fool myself, it's just because I don't have a lot that fits. I so have to go shopping for me. Just too expensive. I only have one pair of regular jeans that fit right now. Still hanging on to my belly (it grew a lot over my 3 months of pregnancy and hasn't gone down much yet. Gained 18 pounds) You should see the cashiers faces when I'm buying pads and tampons at the pharmacy. I should go to the liquor store to.

 

[Visqueen]

So sorry what your going through I too had a missed MC on 16th April at 11weeks. I really miss thinking how my bump would be growing now also its my birthday today and had a mum card from my dog which has got me thinking again. We are also TTC but nothing is happening. Today Im on CD 11 so fingers crossed this will be our month.

Good Luck