greenkat
Mummy of two
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Sorry if this is posted in the wrong place -
I'm almost certain that I had PND after my son, although I've never been to the doctors about it because I didn't realize at the time that my thought and behaviors were abnormal. I thought I felt better (had been to work for a few months which had made me feel better and face up to how I was feeling) but now I feel really down again.
I relate it to alot of things - like I'm not working, having really got any friends, very stretched financially, the list goes on.... so I don't feel like I have PND anymore as much as general depression (I cry alot and get easily upset, have little motivation to do anything, moody, ect.) Although my partner is a good guy - I don't feel conected to him anymore. He just keeps saying to me to stop feeling like this and that I'm bringing myself down - just makes me wonder why I'm with him at all.
Thing is I really don't want to go to the docs - I can't face that situation and I REALLY REALLY don't want to go on any meds for it (personal beliefs and choices).
I feel like I'm at a point where I have choices to make in life but I'm stuck.
How do you cope? How do you get away from that down mindset? - Just looking for some personal experiences really if you don't mind sharing??? Or coping mechanisms or advice or something .
I'm almost certain that I had PND after my son, although I've never been to the doctors about it because I didn't realize at the time that my thought and behaviors were abnormal. I thought I felt better (had been to work for a few months which had made me feel better and face up to how I was feeling) but now I feel really down again.
I relate it to alot of things - like I'm not working, having really got any friends, very stretched financially, the list goes on.... so I don't feel like I have PND anymore as much as general depression (I cry alot and get easily upset, have little motivation to do anything, moody, ect.) Although my partner is a good guy - I don't feel conected to him anymore. He just keeps saying to me to stop feeling like this and that I'm bringing myself down - just makes me wonder why I'm with him at all.
Thing is I really don't want to go to the docs - I can't face that situation and I REALLY REALLY don't want to go on any meds for it (personal beliefs and choices).
I feel like I'm at a point where I have choices to make in life but I'm stuck.
How do you cope? How do you get away from that down mindset? - Just looking for some personal experiences really if you don't mind sharing??? Or coping mechanisms or advice or something .