Jenpops
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Good morning,
I am so new to this thread after a very surprise change of mind from DH.i thought moving on up from WTT would be a relief but it's just making me more neurotic.
My husband is fairly overweight and also struggles from chronic gout (like every week at the moment!). As you can imagine this is not great for our sex life. As we both work full time we get pretty tired during the week and he is pretty much constantly in pain and so before TTC we could go a month before having sex. If I leave it up to him it could be even longer.
I wanted to follow guidelines and stick to every two nights but this has not been possible and as we can't control the gout (it's not diet related) I can't chart and BD at ovulation because I have no idea if he will be in too much pain to.
I really want to support him while he's not well but it's so frustrating when I know I'm ovulating and I feel like he is letting me down (which is so awful of me to think)
We have an amazing marriage other wise, this is just somewhere we have always struggled with
Anyone else struggling to actually stick to their chart/every two nights?
I am so new to this thread after a very surprise change of mind from DH.i thought moving on up from WTT would be a relief but it's just making me more neurotic.
My husband is fairly overweight and also struggles from chronic gout (like every week at the moment!). As you can imagine this is not great for our sex life. As we both work full time we get pretty tired during the week and he is pretty much constantly in pain and so before TTC we could go a month before having sex. If I leave it up to him it could be even longer.
I wanted to follow guidelines and stick to every two nights but this has not been possible and as we can't control the gout (it's not diet related) I can't chart and BD at ovulation because I have no idea if he will be in too much pain to.
I really want to support him while he's not well but it's so frustrating when I know I'm ovulating and I feel like he is letting me down (which is so awful of me to think)
We have an amazing marriage other wise, this is just somewhere we have always struggled with
Anyone else struggling to actually stick to their chart/every two nights?
