Did anyone else hate being team yellow while pregnant?

[stripeycat5]

After having 2 boys I was genuinely concerned as to how disappointed I'd be if I found out baby 3 was another boy while still pregnant. I figured that I wouldn't care either way once I'd actually had baby

The bit in bold is why i stayed team yellow for my second. i found out with my first but i was so desperate for a girl that if she had been a boy i would have not bonded with the baby at all - but then thought well no matter what he/she is when they get here i won't care. does that make sense?

This ^^ I kept on telling myself it would be fine if it was a boy but I was really desperate for a girl and didn't want to be disappointed before the baby came along. I also didn't want everyone to know what the sex of the baby was and knew I wouldn't be able to keep it a secret if we had found out. I was team yellow with both of mine and loved the suspense of not knowing what sex they were until they came out. I feel so blessed to have one of each and it was made all the more special when she came out and hubby said "it's a girl" it was wonderful 😊

 

[Wnt2beAMom]

I think we'll find out from ultrasound next baby because my son's birth was very traumatic and one of the nurses ruined our plan to "look ourselves" instead of being told. I waited 9 months and some bloody nurse has to walk in and announce it, while I'm just waking up from my c section (I was put under).