Welshcob
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With Kim Catrell - I am really disturbed about it. If you saw it you would have seen how her grand father just upped and left his family without a word, leaving them in abject poverty.
He went off right after on a wee trip to the US, got turned around and sent home. But married an English woman upon his return only a year from walking out on his family. He went on to have four other children and took them to Australia. Not once did he spare a thought for his poverty stricken children from the first marriage and not once did he show an ounce of thought or compassion for them, or his current family it seemed.
Its really knocked it home that there really are people out there like my FOB who truly don't give their children a second thought, or think a second on their own bad behaviour - let alone have a moments guilt about it.
Seriously - I know my FOB is just like that - so though I spend every day being gob smacked how he could have walked without a word and accused me of harrassing him when i invited him to scans and asked what on earth was going on. He really doesn't care and is probably working his way through the female population of milton Keynes now, saying how dreadful i am because i slapped him.
Somehow I have to get it into my head that hes not human and there really are people like that out there. Its never what you first see, they are such charmers...but soon and slowly they change. Moulding you along the way.
He walked before when I got a cancer scare and he walked before when my mom was dying of cancer. Each time without a word. Then he came back saying that when my mother was dying that he had his own issues to deal with. And when I had the cancer scare, he left because I did not give him enough attention.
So I really have to get real and realise thats what he does and he doesn't care a scrap. The world revolves around him.
And I am such an ass for taking it and focusing on a possible future that was never there...but still struggle!
He went off right after on a wee trip to the US, got turned around and sent home. But married an English woman upon his return only a year from walking out on his family. He went on to have four other children and took them to Australia. Not once did he spare a thought for his poverty stricken children from the first marriage and not once did he show an ounce of thought or compassion for them, or his current family it seemed.
Its really knocked it home that there really are people out there like my FOB who truly don't give their children a second thought, or think a second on their own bad behaviour - let alone have a moments guilt about it.
Seriously - I know my FOB is just like that - so though I spend every day being gob smacked how he could have walked without a word and accused me of harrassing him when i invited him to scans and asked what on earth was going on. He really doesn't care and is probably working his way through the female population of milton Keynes now, saying how dreadful i am because i slapped him.
Somehow I have to get it into my head that hes not human and there really are people like that out there. Its never what you first see, they are such charmers...but soon and slowly they change. Moulding you along the way.
He walked before when I got a cancer scare and he walked before when my mom was dying of cancer. Each time without a word. Then he came back saying that when my mother was dying that he had his own issues to deal with. And when I had the cancer scare, he left because I did not give him enough attention.
So I really have to get real and realise thats what he does and he doesn't care a scrap. The world revolves around him.

