Did anyone watch Who do you think you are?

Welshcob

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With Kim Catrell - I am really disturbed about it. If you saw it you would have seen how her grand father just upped and left his family without a word, leaving them in abject poverty.
He went off right after on a wee trip to the US, got turned around and sent home. But married an English woman upon his return only a year from walking out on his family. He went on to have four other children and took them to Australia. Not once did he spare a thought for his poverty stricken children from the first marriage and not once did he show an ounce of thought or compassion for them, or his current family it seemed.
Its really knocked it home that there really are people out there like my FOB who truly don't give their children a second thought, or think a second on their own bad behaviour - let alone have a moments guilt about it.
Seriously - I know my FOB is just like that - so though I spend every day being gob smacked how he could have walked without a word and accused me of harrassing him when i invited him to scans and asked what on earth was going on. He really doesn't care and is probably working his way through the female population of milton Keynes now, saying how dreadful i am because i slapped him.
Somehow I have to get it into my head that hes not human and there really are people like that out there. Its never what you first see, they are such charmers...but soon and slowly they change. Moulding you along the way.
He walked before when I got a cancer scare and he walked before when my mom was dying of cancer. Each time without a word. Then he came back saying that when my mother was dying that he had his own issues to deal with. And when I had the cancer scare, he left because I did not give him enough attention.
So I really have to get real and realise thats what he does and he doesn't care a scrap. The world revolves around him. :cry: And I am such an ass for taking it and focusing on a possible future that was never there...but still struggle!:hug:
 
i didnt see it hun but unfortunately there tons of men outthere like tht. look at al the children with there dads around it speaks for itself. but dnt blame urself hun, weve all been sucked in by men at sum point in our lives, jus gotta live n learn i think xxxx
 
Hun you're like me in that u want to see the best in everyone and have just learned the hard way that such morons do exist. It's hard to take in as we would never imagine doing that but hey Hun there are so many mucked up guys out there.

I spent months like you in shock think what the ..... And would make excuses for him etc etc. Around 2 months ago it finally sunk in and I don't even think about it now let alone let it get to me. You will only trully get relief hub when that part clicks - until then u will always be in disbelief. I soooo hope it comes for you soon to trully move on.

Keep me posted how u getting on. I've only got about 3 weeks left to go. Yay
 

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