No Hun the numbness didn't frighten me. It wears off pretty quickly so for me by the time I was leaving recovery although I couldn't have stood up I could brace my legs to shimmy up the bed or whatever. It's not so bad. One thing that did freak me out (not sure they do the same everywhere but just in case) they sprayed cold air up my legs and over my bump to make sure it was numb. I could still feel it all the way up so I was terrified I'd feel them cutting me (even though they said over and over its ok to feel it as long as it doesn't feel cold) that frightened me. But they were right! I couldn't feel it.
I had this too! They thought they were going to have to do ga but then they said "can you feel that?" I asked what and she told me the surgeon was poking my stomach!
The numbness is fine and to be honest kinda the last thing you're even thinking about, the nurses and doctors all talk to you and keep your mind occupied and help raise the mood when you're anxious!
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