Did you do anything on your Angel's EDD?

[MrsGlitz]

I am struggling at the moment.

We lost our Angel at 5+4 at the end of June then got this BFP in August.

My Angel's EDD was this Wednesday. I feel so confused and don't know whether to do something? I am off sick with SPD and DH will be working. I know DH will try and let the day pass without occasion, whenever I have got upset before he just says "She wasn't well" or something. I know he never really grieved for our loss properly, just tried to pretend nothing had happened and he did apologise for not being there for me once we got past 12 weeks this time (we had a couple of early scares).

So I feel kind of stuck?

 

[Las78]

Aw hun, it's hard isn't it. I didn't do anything, I couldn't, I don't know why. In some ways I think of his birthday as the day he was actually born rather than the day he was due.

I have a little angel holding his birthstone and that is something I will have forever, I felt that was enough for me but then I also have his grave to go to so I guess keeping that nice helps too.

How about planting perhaps a plant or a tree in bubs memory?

Hope the day is not too hard on you x

 

[Hoolie]

Didn't do anything here either. I thought about my lost one more and was more tearful around that time but didn't feel like I could mark it in anyway



Alex