Didn't break the rules however...

[Sambatiki]

I chicken'd out of TTC at the weekend!! I just can't make my mind up!!

 

[LeaArr]

We'll all just be in TTC limbo together

 

[maccy]

Oh sorry Icrepka! x

 

[LeaArr]

Thanks. I really am ok with it. To be truly honest, it kinda scared me. It made me realize that it's not only DH that needs the next couple of months, I need it too.

 

[Sambatiki]

Icrepka,

I think Im with you there. It would make it easier if it happened by accident. I think its just the thought of faliure. that I couldn't deal with be it another MC or my arriving every month reminding me that we haven't made a baby. Does that sound sill?

 

[Sambatiki]

Hey maccy

How are you?? Nice weekend??

 

[starryeye31]

I just wanted to stop in here and say , in march dh and I were suppose to be waiting to try , I made him use condoms but it turns out he was putting holes in them and I got pregnant that month but had an early m/c on aprril 17th , when I found out I was pregnant I asked dh about it and he then told me he had put the holes in te condoms , I was happy about being pregnant though and what a surprise , now that we are ttc it seems harder to get pregnant , I think im going to make him use comdoms again , lol it worked better . good luck girls .

 

[Sambatiki]

Hi Starreyeye.

Maybe thats what I should get DF to do maybe just in a few!! LUCKY DIP!!! then I might not feel as bad about it.

Wishing you a

 

[maccy]

Hey maccy

How are you?? Nice weekend??

Yeah fine thanks, lovely weekend, feeling pre-menstral but no sign yet, wish it would hurry up and I can get o with TTC. Hows you?

 

[Sambatiki]

Im not too bad... Feeling a bit sorry for myself.. Drank too many vodka red bulls yesterday!! LOL

 

[maccy]

Ha ha no sympathy then if it's self inflicted!!!!

 

[Sambatiki]

Awww your all heart maccy !! Hope the arrives soon for you hun

 

[LeaArr]

Icrepka,

I think Im with you there. It would make it easier if it happened by accident. I think its just the thought of faliure. that I couldn't deal with be it another MC or my arriving every month reminding me that we haven't made a baby. Does that sound sill?

Doesn't sound silly at all.

This month was so strange for me. I want to have a baby so much, but at the same time, it scares the crap out of me. I have these nagging doubts about my ability to take care of a LO. There is also the fear in my mind that I may m/c and I wouldn't know how to deal with that.
I am thinking when September comes, I'm just going to go without protection, but i'm not going to actively ttc iykwim. No charting or worrying about it. when it happens, it happens.

 

[LeaArr]

Im not too bad... Feeling a bit sorry for myself.. Drank too many vodka red bulls yesterday!! LOL

Yeah, there were a few drinky poos for me as well. I made risotto yesterday, so there was a better part of a bottle of wine that needed to be delt with

 

[Sambatiki]

Theres no use wasting a good bottle of wine. You'll have to give me the recipe.

When DF and I start TTC properly I defo don't want to get to obsessed about it. Probably easier said tho!!

 

[porkpie1981]

Doesn't sound silly at all.

This month was so strange for me. I want to have a baby so much, but at the same time, it scares the crap out of me. I have these nagging doubts about my ability to take care of a LO. There is also the fear in my mind that I may m/c and I wouldn't know how to deal with that.
I am thinking when September comes, I'm just going to go without protection, but i'm not going to actively ttc iykwim. No charting or worrying about it. when it happens, it happens.

I was the same as i want to be preggers but know it would b best to wait a few months