do know what to do?

[SophiasMummy]

Well a couple weeks ago I started talking to an ex bf who I was with at college, we havent spoke in 2 years as his now ex gf wouldnt let him, cause she hates me. We went through a lot at college and didnt leave it on the best of terms, anyway the last few days he keeps telling me he still loves me and wants us to get back together and wants to be there for me and my LO and wants us to settle down and try for a brother/sister for sophia. But to be honest im kind of lost by it all, at college our relationship was kind of up and down, I told him sophia comes first and if we did try a relatiponship again we would have to take it slow because I cant just open myself up to him straight away just for him to leave a few months down the line if he thinks having a kind of ready made family is too much for him.

I think I do want to try again with him, but I know I dont love him like I did then. I dont know if im just keen to accept back into our life because I feel lonely or because I really do want to be with him, I feel so stuck, I figure the easiest way to find out is to try again with him all though obviously take things slow, it just feels so weird because I thought me and my LOs dad were going to be together for a longtime which obviously didnt happen and I know I need to move my and my LOs life forward and get out the lonely single mum rutt im in at the moment

sorry rather long kind of rant just needed to get it all out xx

 

[manda22]

Just like you said take it slow... I have come to realize that you can't just jump into anything anymore. I have a guy wanting to go out but before I do it I have to think about a multiple of things. Also, can you overlook the reasons why you broke up in a first place?

 

[MummyJade]

Just take it slow... you dont need to rush into anything, and if he cares for you like he says he does he will be willing to take it at your speed....

good luck xx

 

[SophiasMummy]

Thanks I think he just kind of. Expects oit to pick up where we left off, ive already told him we need to take it slow and see if it is gunna work. Its hard to take things slow as ive always jumped into relationships so guess it will be a learning experience for both of us x