I had an easy delivery with an epidural, and barely tore (never had any pain from it).
I was born via forceps delivery back in the 80s and had a slight scar on the side of my face near my ear from the "spoon" slipping on my head. I had that taken care of for vanity reasons when I was in 6th grade (12 years old).
I honestly wouldn't be worried about needing assistance with an epidural. Me, my cousin, my BFF, two other friends....we all had epidurals and all was perfectly fine. I could still feel the pressure from the contractions, and knew exactly when and how to push.
ETA: I just remembered my bff had the suction cup with one of her babies, and baby was just fine. The other baby was born without assistance and mom had an epidural that time as well.
Unfortunately, there's a known tendency for doctors to overuse forceps and vacuums when their use is not needed -- especially in the US.
Unfortunately, there's a known tendency for doctors to overuse forceps and vacuums when their use is not needed -- especially in the US.
Not sure if it differs in other areas of the country, but my doctors and midwives/nurses said forceps weren't even used anymore. They weren't even in the delivery room with me. lol One nurse mentioned it was an old fashion method and not used unless there is a serious need for it. But even then, they said if they do one delivery every few YEARS via forceps, that was too much.
Unfortunately, there's a known tendency for doctors to overuse forceps and vacuums when their use is not needed -- especially in the US.
Not sure if it differs in other areas of the country, but my doctors and midwives/nurses said forceps weren't even used anymore. They weren't even in the delivery room with me. lol One nurse mentioned it was an old fashion method and not used unless there is a serious need for it. But even then, they said if they do one delivery every few YEARS via forceps, that was too much.
Unfortunately, there's a known tendency for doctors to overuse forceps and vacuums when their use is not needed -- especially in the US.
Not sure if it differs in other areas of the country, but my doctors and midwives/nurses said forceps weren't even used anymore. They weren't even in the delivery room with me. lol One nurse mentioned it was an old fashion method and not used unless there is a serious need for it. But even then, they said if they do one delivery every few YEARS via forceps, that was too much.
That's honestly surprising to hear if you are indeed referring to Southern California. Maybe you were at a more enlightened hospital? Being from Southern California myself, I know of many people who had forceps used during their births fairly recently. I was yanked out of my mother's body (quite unnecessarily) with forceps in Southern California as well, hah -- but that was 27 years ago. Point being, I know they're used quite extensively in the States, even in SoCal!