Do u get lonely sometimes?

[xxkayla89xx]

Hi ladies, hope ur all doing well. So I'm a single parent to a gorgeous 14 week old baby girl who I love with all my heart, she keeps me occupied most of the day but when she goes to sleep at night I just feel so alone. It's like I miss adult conversation, do any of you ladies feel like this sometimes? xx

 

[Shezza84uk]

I have my moments atm I seem to go to bed the same time as them or my mum and Aunty has endless things to tell me about their day on the phone xx

 

[MorganEvans]

Maybe try occupying your time by doing other things? Work on something or find a hobby?

 

[moomin_troll]

We all get lonely sometimes
I love being alone and it still gets me.

 

[daniandbaby]

yes!

 

[karmapolice]

Of course I do, its 100% natural.

Try watching something you love on TV, catch up with friends/family and generally just occupy yourself

 

[Dezireey]

Yeah, I get lonely from time to time but I have been much more lonely in the past when I was single with no baby, so its the lesser of two evils now LOL. My LO keeps me busy and like you, sometimes at night, when you manage to put your feet up for five mins, you think 'damn, I could do with a cuddle/conversation/kiss etc right now' and there is no-one there. It has got better for me though and I keep busy. Plenty of time when my boy has grown up a bit to meet men, can't be bothered at the moment.

 

[PinkLady17]

i miss cuddling and kissing ....and resting my head on someone's chest.

 

[SophiasMummy]

Yes thats part of the reason i got a dog as i grew up with dogs and thought if i got a dog it would help me not feel so lonely and help me feels safer. To be honest he does both those things and more he really helps my stress levels when sophia gets too much sounds weird but i think i relied on my two dogs a lot growing up and they were my best friends so thats why my pup helps me now (he is also sophias best friend and is like a nanny dog that follows her everywhere). Its not for everyone though my friend got a pup because she saw that i managed to handle a puppy and 1-2 year old and now is having to find her another hone because she cant cope. To be honest the only thing i miss about having a bf now is someone to talk to and cuddle up too occasionally (i can be funny about my personal space)

 

[gracexxx]

yes i get lonely, i moved out to my own place with LO about 3 months ago, and i just cant get used to being alone! strangely enough its not the evenings a find hard as im soo busy clearing up after LO, its the mornings, when i wake up in an empty bed and house, with just the baby to say good morning to! it is hard but i guess ill get used to it, and having my own space is lovely!

 

[Loopy95]

I'm like this. Part of me can't wait to go back to work. But then the other part will miss LO like crazy. Think it's normal really, I mean I may well be the most anti-social person on earth and if I miss adult company then I daresay quite a lot of people do. Try calling or texting someone once she's in bed? Or stalk baby forums...

 

[someone23]

I'm pregnant and is lonely all the time ... fob left at 17 week of. pregnancy .. prayer have gotten me this far... he now is with someone else ... n says he don't want anything to do with baby until he gets a blood test

 

[jaytee146]

I felt like that alot, when lo was yonger.... and even now.. I'm just a bit destracted how that she is more active and walking... I have great days and other days where I wish someone was sharing in the excitment and ups and downs of raising a baby. but then I think to myself, when the right man comes it will happen.
I am finding more hobbies though...

 

[lil lovey]

Yeah I feel it too... Valentines Day didn't help much

 

[moomin_troll]

Couples on Facebook during vday make me sick! Haha but then again I had afew single girls on there moaning all day about being single lol

 

[tallybee]

Couples on Facebook during vday make me sick! Haha but then again I had afew single girls on there moaning all day about being single lol

yeah! I just ignored it (was easier due to being abroad on holiday at the time!) then bought myself a bunch of nice bath stuff and chocs yesterday which were greatly reduced in Asda due to vday being over

Srsly though, it's very natural to feel lonely; when my two were tiny I used to immerse myself online and I also started studying, just for something to do.... I graduated with 1st Class Honours just recently so that goes to show what u can do!

xx

 

[exoticsiren]

I feel lonely now even in a relationship.. I wouldnt feel that way single kwim..