do we hav a say?

[Mummy&bump]

in who our ex's introduce our lo's 2?

i jus feel tht i wudnt intruduce any man in2 my lo's life until im sure its 4 keeps but i doubt very much he wud feel this way! more like his gf's will change like the weather i dont think it wud b very fair on the wee man as it wud b confusen!

can we do anythin about this?

x

 

[Serene123]

Nope!

 

[Mummy&bump]

uff bolloks! lol

there shud b summit in place


xx

 

[xarlenex]

Other than simply telling them you'd rather he didn't do it, then nup.

 

[MoonMuffin]

legally there's nothing you can do, but maybe you could try explaining that kids get easily attached to people and if he keeps introducing new girl to him only to have them keep leaving, it could really have a negative phycological effect of your child. If he cares then that should scare him into only having someone he's serious about get involved with your LO. If he doesn't care, maybe don't put him on the birth certificate and you'll have more of a say? Cause if he's not willing to put his child's needs before his wants, then maybe he shouldn't be so involved? I don't know what he's like, just a suggestion of he's not willing to cooperate, hope it helps.