Do you ever wish it worked out?

[xarlenex]

Recently, John, Kyle's dad has been in and around the house once everyday, even if its just been for 20 mins to stop and see Kyle because he really wasnt well and its just that sometimes when I see Kyles eyes light up and he gets all excited to see his Daddy I really wish things had worked out I wanted my boy to have his daddy coming home to him everynight after work. I wanted to be the one telling them both to be quiet stop play fighting when eastenders was on lol stupid, but true!

I ended it..and sometimes I feel selfish for doing so. I'm in a relationship with a new guy, hes great and makes me so happy. But, he's just not my babies daddy. I wouldn't get back with him right enough. Which is why I really dont understand these feelings!

Tell me im making sense and i'm not the only one..?!

 

[LucyS]

Of course I do but the reality of it is that it never would work and it is wrong to stay together just for the sake of him being babys dad as what he done is unforgivable.

 

[MrsJD]

You'll be feeling like this as you see your son happy with his daddy.

When I split from my first husband I went through this, the guilt was terrible as I kept thinking I've ruined there life together. I stuck by my guns and never took him back and to be honest it was the best decision of my life. My son is nearly 13 and he see his dad once a week which he's happy with.

 

[AppleBlossom]

Everyday lol I wanted us to all be able to go on holidays together and to take her out to her first trips to the zoo etc she loves her daddy and gets really excited when she sees him. Although it will be different because we are still living together but we're still going to do the whole seperate mummy/daddy time that we would have done if we'd been apart.

 

[Serene123]

I guess.. but I'm releaved that I'm strong enough now to not keep trying to fight for something that isn't goin to work..

 

[Moulder86]

At the start I was really disapointed that it didn't work, as Bexy said I looked forward to doing all the family days out together and obviously for Max to grow up with his dad around but I know that us not being together is for the best as he's a really crap father and hasn't seen him properly since November! He's never brought him anything, every time Max gets upset when he comes round he gives him back to me. I know it's for the best and I know that eventually I'll find myself a nice bloke who looks after the both of us and treat Max like his own in the mean time he's got my dad and my brother!

xx

 

[xarlenex]

This feeling passed! Fast, eh? His daddy told me a wee fib today, which reminded me why we aren't together!!

 

[brownhairedmom]

No, I'm glad I didn't stay. Every day I thank my lucky stars that he's not part of our lives and that I'm not raising this baby around him. I know exactly how it would be. I'd have JUST enough money for milk, he'd have tons...and I'd be the one having to buy it because he'd be too selfish to give up his smokes or take out. I can just see him not taking care of her right and then accusing me of criticizing him and being a bitch

I have to stop before I work myself into a rage I already want to go hunt him down after that little bit lol

point is, I'd rather do this any day by myself then have to make Renah experience that which is her fuckhead of a biological father.

 

[Naya69]

every minute of the day i think the same thing wold love for things to work out altho me and mike are getting closer the only thing stopping us is this stupid dna test from the csa cant wait for it to be done to prove my point xx

 

[nikky0907]

Sometimes I imagine how things would be if the two of us were meant to be together and completely in love.

But thats not how things are and if I tried making it work I'd be fighting a losing battle.

 

[xJG30]

Nope never.

Glad it didn't work out, to the point part of me wishes I'd never told him I was pregnant.

 

[brownhairedmom]

nope never.

glad it didn't work out, to the point part of me wishes i'd never told him i was pregnant.

me too!!!

 

[Naya69]

iam sort of glad iam on my own it means me makin all the decisions and if i pick the wrong ones then its only me too blame but then i wish i had a guy around the house like at the moment i need to sort joshuas bedroom out and put his furniture up i hate askin my family for help as i love being independant so right now i would love a guy around x

 

[Mummy&bump]

its a weird 1! i dunno if its coz im still pregnant and been on my own with the pregnancy 4m day 1, but i do wish sumtimes that he wasnt such a prick and would have changed his ways b4 it was to late, i still have stupid dreams like everynight thats things work out! but the other half is glad that i have him out my life, my baby boy will do alot better without his waster of a father around showing him how 2 b aggresive no thanks lol!

But im guessing the minute i see my baby il feel more anger towards him!
xxxx

 

[xXDonnaXx]

I am so glad I finished him. It doesn't even cross my mind like "What if he was here" because he's a waste of space and he wouldnt know what to do with her. He didnt even know what an umbilical cord was. Never mind know how to bring a baby up. Lol. He's too childish for me anyway. I dont know what I saw in him!

 

[angels330]

my ex is an arse and a terrible role model for my daughter, i say good riddance to him!

 

[xJG30]

I am so glad I finished him. It doesn't even cross my mind like "What if he was here" because he's a waste of space and he wouldnt know what to do with her. He didnt even know what an umbilical cord was. Never mind know how to bring a baby up. Lol. He's too childish for me anyway. I dont know what I saw in him!

That's exactly how I feel about my ex.. though his childishness was down to being 20 and a mummys boy

 

[sweetsammi]

Never...he's a waste of space and too selfish and childish so wouldnt know what to do with Oliver. My regret is actually not finishing things before Oliver was born! x

 

[xXDonnaXx]

I am so glad I finished him. It doesn't even cross my mind like "What if he was here" because he's a waste of space and he wouldnt know what to do with her. He didnt even know what an umbilical cord was. Never mind know how to bring a baby up. Lol. He's too childish for me anyway. I dont know what I saw in him!

That's exactly how I feel about my ex.. though his childishness was down to being 20 and a mummys boy

Yep,He's 19 and very childish.

Where do we find em eh!?

 

[xarlenex]

I am so glad I finished him. It doesn't even cross my mind like "What if he was here" because he's a waste of space and he wouldnt know what to do with her. He didnt even know what an umbilical cord was. Never mind know how to bring a baby up. Lol. He's too childish for me anyway. I dont know what I saw in him!

That's exactly how I feel about my ex.. though his childishness was down to being 20 and a mummys boy

Yep,He's 19 and very childish.

Where do we find em eh!?

I remember going shopping with John when I was still pregnant, we were in mothercare and I noticed he'd been staring at some microwable sterilisers for a while I asked what wat his fascination was and his reply
"Well, I was just wondering why we would need a see through potty, thats all"

I didnt no whether to laugh or cry!!