momto4girls
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You know, I had 4 babies before a loss. And when I got pregnant with my #5, I didn't even think "oh, what if I miscarry?" b/c I was blind to the fact that it COULD happen. Then it did at 14 1/2 weeks. I had no idea anything was even wrong. I went in for my regular appointment and there was baby, with no heart beating. I had no signs of miscarriage whatsoever, no spotting, nothing. I'm 11 weeks and a day today, and I know if 3weeks3days I will probably have a nervous breakdown. There is no explanation for my loss, it just happened. (We did all the genetic screening and stuff, just to make sure b/c we knew we wanted future children and if there was an issue we wanted to be prepared next time. It has proven to come in handy as I am still seeing a perinatal doctor and he inquired about my loss and if it was genetic related) It does bug me when people expect me to "get over it" to "forget about it, it happened". That baby was and always will be my baby. I'm sorry people expect you to hide your loss. That's your baby, always will be. I have my ultrasound pictures hanging on the wall in a frame, and people think its morbid. 


