was browsing the forums was so preoccupied with first trimester and only been in there a lot now i found this one which is a god send
i have 7 children nearly 8 lol anyway i have 1 12 year old daughter who has left side hemiplegia and is doing really well shes just had an operation on her leg and foot well back in september and so far been really sucessful got her foot almost 90 degrees so is fantastic ...thats not my main problem my main problem is my 10 year old little boy i just find noone is listening to me regarding his problems
he is currently undergoing testing only taken 2 years for them to see him disgraceful in my opinion he attends mainstream school but is currently on a duel statement for behavourial and learning difficulties
the school initially were helpful and couldnt do enough fdor him when they were trying to get his statment as soon as its received they cant be bothered so it seems to me
hes being excluded all the time cos of his violent outbursts he just flips over little things and then goes off his head
the assesment center we have had a lot of dealings with appointments etc discussing what my son is like what he does etc etc they are assesing him cos they think he may have asd traits not all but some ie obsessive social interaction etc etc
we tried getting into a special school the head of the particular school said he would fit in so well there so did the head and the deputy head/senco coordinator of his current school then the big downer came the educational psycologist who barley nos harry has met him on maybe 3 occasions decided to test him they sent me the results and basically u had to score below a certain level to be considered for possible admission into this school he scored slightly above so on this decision she decided he didnt need to be a special school we are fuming and damn annoyed everyone agrred him going there would have been in his benefit but down to this one women he has now lost out i feel as a mum i have no say in anything i feel powerless over my owns sons education he needs one to one but doesnt receive it cos his statmenting doesnt cater for it thats what i think as his mum why do i think this ???? well on the times hes been excluded put it this way his attendance for this term was 84 percent...sorry anyway when hes been excluded he has to bring works sheets home very simple ones ie year 1 level with one to one he will sit and complete these theres no distractions just me and him and hes a little star bless him he can barley read and write im worried sick about him i feel likes hes being pushed aside noone actually gives a damn apart from me i just feel totally lost i no we need this diagnosis so i can finally sort things out if he has a label i dont want him to have one but if they can then maybe something will happen positively for my son i keep saying to everybody i just wanna no whats gong on with him i find it really hard to handle him at times
sometimes i just feel so stressed when hes at school im waiting for the phone call come and get him hes done this or that im constantly bk and forward picking him up i love him to pieces but i no im struggling with it all
sorry for the ramble
i have 7 children nearly 8 lol anyway i have 1 12 year old daughter who has left side hemiplegia and is doing really well shes just had an operation on her leg and foot well back in september and so far been really sucessful got her foot almost 90 degrees so is fantastic ...thats not my main problem my main problem is my 10 year old little boy i just find noone is listening to me regarding his problems
he is currently undergoing testing only taken 2 years for them to see him disgraceful in my opinion he attends mainstream school but is currently on a duel statement for behavourial and learning difficulties
the school initially were helpful and couldnt do enough fdor him when they were trying to get his statment as soon as its received they cant be bothered so it seems to me
hes being excluded all the time cos of his violent outbursts he just flips over little things and then goes off his head
the assesment center we have had a lot of dealings with appointments etc discussing what my son is like what he does etc etc they are assesing him cos they think he may have asd traits not all but some ie obsessive social interaction etc etc
we tried getting into a special school the head of the particular school said he would fit in so well there so did the head and the deputy head/senco coordinator of his current school then the big downer came the educational psycologist who barley nos harry has met him on maybe 3 occasions decided to test him they sent me the results and basically u had to score below a certain level to be considered for possible admission into this school he scored slightly above so on this decision she decided he didnt need to be a special school we are fuming and damn annoyed everyone agrred him going there would have been in his benefit but down to this one women he has now lost out i feel as a mum i have no say in anything i feel powerless over my owns sons education he needs one to one but doesnt receive it cos his statmenting doesnt cater for it thats what i think as his mum why do i think this ???? well on the times hes been excluded put it this way his attendance for this term was 84 percent...sorry anyway when hes been excluded he has to bring works sheets home very simple ones ie year 1 level with one to one he will sit and complete these theres no distractions just me and him and hes a little star bless him he can barley read and write im worried sick about him i feel likes hes being pushed aside noone actually gives a damn apart from me i just feel totally lost i no we need this diagnosis so i can finally sort things out if he has a label i dont want him to have one but if they can then maybe something will happen positively for my son i keep saying to everybody i just wanna no whats gong on with him i find it really hard to handle him at times
sometimes i just feel so stressed when hes at school im waiting for the phone call come and get him hes done this or that im constantly bk and forward picking him up i love him to pieces but i no im struggling with it all
sorry for the ramble